Okay I have been a member of this site for....I have no idea how long now...I have gotten a total of 5 messages/replies. Any suggestions on what I could do to maybe spruce up my profile a little?

hi, im only new to the site, and got told my profile wasnt the best, so i best not give advice, not that i have any, going thru your profile, its great, says who you are, what your after, and leaves the reader wanting to know more about you. so i do hope your messages and reply's pick up.

good luck and hope you find what your after xo

Hmmm...I read your profile...seems ok to me. Has some likes, dislikes, etc...etc...

You're cute, well spoken, and seem to know what what you want (or at least what you don't want)...

Keep your chin up...it'll happen with or without the help of Mingle!

<3

I read your profile too. I think it's really good except that if I were you, I'd lose the... "most girls just don't give me the chance to prove it to them." part. It makes me wonder why that happens.

And...try posting in the forums more.

aLittleBird...I had to go to your profile to see what your picture said...THAT'S hysterical. HAHAHA

(And I like your headline too...)

a pic of you with a real smile would help :o)
any negativity on your profile isn't going to
help your cause..and yes, post more on the forums so minglers can get to know ya..good luck

actually, i don't see anything wrong with your profile..it's simple and states what you are after. only one typo:

I'm looking for the ever after you here people go on about.
here needs to be changed to hear.

:o)

Thanks!! lol

thankyou, i fixed the typo, didnt even pick up on it..

Ok,,you asked,lol,,
Your head line COULD,,be a more cooler catch,,,but its still ok,,,the rest rocks,,so now,,whats the problem?

YOU ARE NOT KNOWN HERE BY MANY!

So think of some cool stuff to ask the people,,or the chicks,,and POST,,,,,,and then,,,,POST,,,,,and then,,,REPLY,,,to MANY,,,and MANY,,,,then the MORE THEY see you the better your chance that one will find you her WOW,,and write you to make friendship,,and your on a roll,,,,,
It takes time for many who work 1st,2nd,3rd,shifts to see anyone,,,as,MANY don't go back and read old posts much,,,,so,living on here through ALL the shifts and talking MUCH,,,will,excelorate your being seen and read,wink,,thats not my opinion,,,thats A FACT!,,,I had to learn,,,w/o any help as to HOW,,,,so GOOD LUCK,,and be safe,,,and young man,

THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SERVING THIS COUNTRY AND ITS PEOPLE!

I WOULD BUY YA A DRINK ANYTIME,AND I WILL HELP YOU HERE ANYTIME..

OH,,,and,,,,if ya see a lady close in the searches,,,send her a Nudge,,,,,,what the heck,,,at least SHE will look ya up and read ya,,,,,wink,lol

Reading your profile it seems to need sorting out a little. Maybe sort out your remarks on and outline and make a better tactical plan.

Being random may just be a stress reaction to trying to process all that you have been through. Until then it will take a lot of effort to pay attention and attract attention. Hang in there. It will happen when you are really ready.

Big changes in your life, that most women your age are not going to really grasp sadly, so you might want to focus on what is current and where you are hoping to go. Try to weed out the negative vibes.

You are smart, thoughtful, very good looking, and sound pretty stable which will appeal to many when you jump in and interact in the forums. Fifteen posts just won't do it. That is where people will get to know you and get past whatever fear they may have about meeting you.

Add some current photo's and save some of the back ground photos to be something you share with the special ones. Smiles are critical for the 3 seconds you have in a photo being seen.