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redhead44613's photo
Mon 11/30/09 10:00 AM
He is a month older then I am so yeah he is in my age group. Maybe all he wants is sex but he won't get it from me. I don't do that unless I am dating that person. so just gonna wait an see what happens.

msharmony's photo
Mon 11/30/09 10:06 AM


but I thought after ..ya know the thing, then the old one was like new again ..and you were and what damn Red, I can't keep up with ya..
well I wasn't looking for anything he just kinda came into my life. Just friends for now... gonna take things slow. We both are not ready for a relationship yet. Guess I just wanna know if "dating" could happen.


well, sounds like he is being upfront with you. Id say, be patient and take his advice. Continue to view him as a friend and see where it goes.

Bigstick9's photo
Mon 11/30/09 10:07 AM


rofl He seems like a respectable young men. He come out an told me he is not really ready for a relationship yet but we can be friends an see where it goes. So we will see what happens.

Thank you everyone flowers


He let you know he's not looking for a relationship. I'm going to assume he is in your age group. "but we can be friends and see where it goes" means he'll sleep with you and not have a relationship with you.


wow is this the way we are thought of in general. Look there are a lot of guys out there that say one thing and mean another but that's some not all mess with a real man and there won't be any head games cause believe it or not head games come from women tooo. You're in control so go slow go fast go however you want just be safe

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Mon 11/30/09 10:10 AM
Edited by hopefloating on Mon 11/30/09 10:27 AM
I have to say...What he said could be taken as the "tap dance" so to speak...

However, The guy I am currently with ( as much as I'm unsure about my situation because its still very new ) We started out as friends...and we ended up in bed...and as the days passed we kept seeing each other more and more...till I was practically his roommate. He kept telling me he didn't want a girlfriend...He liked being single...But he kept asking me to hang around.

So...as the days pass he and I finally had a HUGE blow out...two actually in 3 days...I took my crapolla out of his place and said c-ya!

a week later he begged me to come back..how much he missed me...wanted me in his life...how he wanted me to be his girlfriend...how much he needed to treat me better...blah blah blah...

this was recently...so..here I am now officially "IN A RELATIONSHIP".

he didn't think he would be tied down with anyone and here I am.
I thought he didn't care about me but here he is.

I still have reservations about him....but again...its new and we are still learning about each other.

....my point being- sometimes when you start seeing someone it turns into something you NEVER expected...sometimes in a goood way...sometimes in a bad way.

Take the good with the bad.
be friends.
see where it goes.

Who knows....worst case scenerio you may be able to get him tipsy some night and get a little :D

j/k......kinda :p


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Mon 11/30/09 10:12 AM
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XenomorphEyez's photo
Mon 11/30/09 10:13 AM



wow is this the way we are thought of in general. Look there are a lot of guys out there that say one thing and mean another but that's some not all mess with a real man and there won't be any head games cause believe it or not head games come from women tooo. You're in control so go slow go fast go however you want just be safe

We are talking about a 22 yo boy here...you do realize that, don't you? Think back when you were 22, and what was in your thoughts? Ever hear of the phrase 'young dumb and full of cum"? How many 22 yo boys are looking for a long term relationship? If I say 1%, I'm being generous. Harsh but true.

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Mon 11/30/09 10:14 AM




wow is this the way we are thought of in general. Look there are a lot of guys out there that say one thing and mean another but that's some not all mess with a real man and there won't be any head games cause believe it or not head games come from women tooo. You're in control so go slow go fast go however you want just be safe

We are talking about a 22 yo boy here...you do realize that, don't you? Think back when you were 22, and what was in your thoughts? Ever hear of the phrase 'young dumb and full of cum"? How many 22 yo boys are looking for a long term relationship? If I say 1%, I'm being generous. Harsh but true.
all of his last relationships were long term. He wants to get married an start a family before 30. just saying.

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