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Topic: Did I "blow" my chance?
Atlantis75's photo
Wed 12/16/09 11:14 AM

So, I've messaged roughly 30 girls on two dating sites. (This being one of them.) I did have one of them who I thought would be the last one to message me, actually replied to my message! She is on here, and she loves to dance!

I think I scare people from writing too much. Like, I will relate to their profile, but ends up being a paragraph. So as a forewarning to you guys out there, keep it simple! Lol

Anyway, after the 2nd reply, I'm sure my long reply threw her off. Let's just say I'm right, do you think they could ever change their mind about me?

Also this is generally speaking. I'm not hung up on this matter, lol.


She might have replied just being nice, by replying to messages.

Don't look for one or a few replies as the ultimate sign of a connection or real interest.

Women - unlike men - receive about 10 times more emails and nudges and they have a bigger variety of choices by simply logging on and seeing their mailbox filled from all sorts of guys.
They might end up replying to you, they might not, if someone else has already caught their attention and while they will read your mail they never get to the point of replying.

Also, a clear sign of no interest (just being nice) of someone replying to you with only a few words like "yeah" or "no" or "ok".

So I would say, don't bust yourself writing a giant encyclopedia britannica for the first few mails, unless you feel like writing a lot.

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:56 PM
I like it when a man can carry on more than a two word at a time conversation.

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