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Topic: Am I not worthy????
yellowrose10's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:03 PM
(gonna cheat off of Joy's paper.....shhhhhhhhhhhhh)

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:03 PM

I'm working on it, I think I'm so close to finishing the formula.. laugh


Let me know what that is when you get a chance...

I could use some help. I have no idea what I am doing wrong.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:04 PM
Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:08 PM

Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:11 PM

I'm working on it, I think I'm so close to finishing the formula.. laugh


pass the formula my way when your done...whoa

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:12 PM

What does a girl have to do around here to get a date? I am not asking for marriage....yet! (LOL) I'm so frustrated. Please help.explode

I didn't see anything in your profile that suggested anything that screamed run. YMMV.


IRL outings is probably a better option. Regular participations in group settings, such as sporting events with your kids or church groups, might be more fulfilling. I know for myself, I realized that when not a single site worked for me, I was already owned. In fact, earlier this year, a woman on another site suddenly became interested in me while I was overseas in Ireland, and here's the clincher... I get home, and my first thought was, "Just great. I'm in love with one woman, and off dating another." That date didn't pan out well, either by instinct or lack of interest. My next trip, a month later in New Zealand, I made sure she knew I missed her, spending nearly $800.00 in phone calls, and its been growing ever since, in spite of all of my protests. So yea, my ideas of dating anyone else went out the window, months ago and I've pretty much stopped fighting it.

Perhaps your situation is not much different? Is someone distracting you?

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:12 PM


Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????




Look approachablelaugh

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:14 PM



Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????




Look approachablelaugh


Are you saying I don't look approachable????

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:17 PM


What does a girl have to do around here to get a date? I am not asking for marriage....yet! (LOL) I'm so frustrated. Please help.explode

I didn't see anything in your profile that suggested anything that screamed run. YMMV.


IRL outings is probably a better option. Regular participations in group settings, such as sporting events with your kids or church groups, might be more fulfilling. I know for myself, I realized that when not a single site worked for me, I was already owned. In fact, earlier this year, a woman on another site suddenly became interested in me while I was overseas in Ireland, and here's the clincher... I get home, and my first thought was, "Just great. I'm in love with one woman, and off dating another." That date didn't pan out well, either by instinct or lack of interest. My next trip, a month later in New Zealand, I made sure she knew I missed her, spending nearly $800.00 in phone calls, and its been growing ever since, in spite of all of my protests. So yea, my ideas of dating anyone else went out the window, months ago and I've pretty much stopped fighting it.

Perhaps your situation is not much different? Is someone distracting you?


I have no prospects...No distractions...I do things with my kids, go on outings, go to church every Sunday, volunteer at the kids' school, I work for an insurance company so I get a lot of contact with the male gender. Still NO luck.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:18 PM




Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????




Look approachablelaugh


Are you saying I don't look approachable????





Apparently none of us do since we can't find someone, which brings us back to being too good looking for people to approach us.

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:20 PM





Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????




Look approachablelaugh


Are you saying I don't look approachable????





Apparently none of us do since we can't find someone, which brings us back to being too good looking for people to approach us.


I would approach you in a heart beat if you were closer...

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:23 PM






Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????




Look approachablelaugh


Are you saying I don't look approachable????





Apparently none of us do since we can't find someone, which brings us back to being too good looking for people to approach us.


I would approach you in a heart beat if you were closer...





Once again...distancefrustrated

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:26 PM
Edited by Citizen_Joe on Thu 12/17/09 08:27 PM

I have no prospects...No distractions...I do things with my kids, go on outings, go to church every Sunday, volunteer at the kids' school, I work for an insurance company so I get a lot of contact with the male gender. Still NO luck.


I think Patsfan is right. At least here, you aren't very approaching, or are doing that hard to get thing. "Just here for forums" "Friends"... You're pretty clear in your boundaries on this site. Most locals probably get the idea. Otherwise, I didn't see anything that screams run. "healed", yet still guarded is what comes to mind. When it's safe, you'll let your guard down. waving

Oh and toss that "I'm not worthy" attitude.

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 12/17/09 08:27 PM







Lets just say we are all way too good looking & people are afraid to approach us....ya...that's it!



I was starting to think aobut that...LOL!!! So I should make myself look ugly?????




Look approachablelaugh


Are you saying I don't look approachable????





Apparently none of us do since we can't find someone, which brings us back to being too good looking for people to approach us.


I would approach you in a heart beat if you were closer...





Once again...distancefrustrated



You could always move closer...LOL! I have only had one man move from one state to another for me and he is my ex husband. LOL The operative word there was EX~husband.

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