Topic: Do You Think Men Actually Read Profiles.....
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Thu 02/18/10 02:27 PM



Apparently they do read them, so far I've gotten two emails complaining about mine. Glad to know we do have some literate, albeit opinionated, men amongst us.:thumbsup:


Welcome to the club!

I get people complaining about mine all the time. I'm "wrong" for having different standards than they have. I'm also a horrible person for deliberately excluding them, personally (even though I never knew those particular people existed before they wrote to me), from consideration as dating prospects.

Well, nobody's perfect.


I am NOT reading your profile again until you put up a main pic with your fish shown clearly!




I'll see what I can do. Up till now, I've only been able to get llamas and goats and tape dispensers.

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Thu 02/18/10 02:58 PM
wtf happened here

there are a few wemons in here whineing and moaning. the reason men with brains, who are capable of writeing an interesting and funny email, to start to get to know you, well the reason they dont send emails to you, is your whineing moaning men hateing women.

after reading this thread, why would anyone contact you. i suggest you lower your bar and except the grunting cavemen who do mail you.

because otherwise, you`re going to be very lonely up there in your vanity castles.

"men this, men that. wtf is wrong with these damn men"

when it seems to be every man, then its more than likely.... YOU

if you all want to date? then why not write an email about yourself, and send it to all the men in your area?

"because 99% of replys will be from from idiot men who just want to see my boobs"

if you cant put the efort in, then thats your problem and you cant possibly expect to find anyone deacent.

Grrrrr

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Thu 02/18/10 03:20 PM
I'm pretty sure that every woman that reads that will completely miss your message, and target those typos :wink:

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Thu 02/18/10 03:22 PM

wtf happened here

there are a few wemons in here whineing and moaning. the reason men with brains, who are capable of writeing an interesting and funny email, to start to get to know you, well the reason they dont send emails to you, is your whineing moaning men hateing women.


I, as a card-carrying man with brains (although I seem to have misplaced the card), am entirely capable of writing an amusing, interesting, and profile-relevant e-mail. Hell, I wrote 3 books, so I should know a little something about writing.

And none of that mattered, because when I tried sending out amusing, interesting, and profile-relevant e-mails, I never got a response. Not once. So I stopped wasting my time.

I think -- despite the endless parade of protests to the contrary -- women don't actually WANT those kinds of e-mails. That's been my experience, anyway. My hunch is that they don't want any e-mails at all, although that begs the question of what they're doing here in the first place. And I really don't have a good answer for that.


"because 99% of replys will be from from idiot men who just want to see my boobs"


That's a common complaint, and I can understand why that's a total turnoff. But if/when they ignore a guy who actually isn't interested in boobs, what do they really expect?


if you cant put the efort in, then thats your problem and you cant possibly expect to find anyone deacent.

Grrrrr


Agreed.

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Thu 02/18/10 03:25 PM
My profile is more like an anti-profile! :tongue:

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Thu 02/18/10 03:27 PM
Nah. Profiles are mostly BS and cliches anyway... slaphead

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Thu 02/18/10 03:28 PM
Edited by lonetar25 on Thu 02/18/10 03:31 PM

I'm pretty sure that every woman that reads that will completely miss your message, and target those typos :wink:


haha, you know i bet your right. Its a good job i have an IQ of 165million to keep me warm on these cold lonely nights huh

and if that doesnt work, i`ll come onto mingle and slag of the self proclaimed nice guys/girls. Then open a thread complaining about how frustrateing it is that i only recieve mails from dumb wemons and its not fair because im so god damn awsome, infact... im a nice guy

contradiction? what contradiction slaphead

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Thu 02/18/10 03:31 PM

wtf happened here

there are a few wemons in here whineing and moaning. the reason men with brains, who are capable of writeing an interesting and funny email, to start to get to know you, well the reason they dont send emails to you, is your whineing moaning men hateing women.

after reading this thread, why would anyone contact you. i suggest you lower your bar and except the grunting cavemen who do mail you.

because otherwise, you`re going to be very lonely up there in your vanity castles.

"men this, men that. wtf is wrong with these damn men"

when it seems to be every man, then its more than likely.... YOU

if you all want to date? then why not write an email about yourself, and send it to all the men in your area?

"because 99% of replys will be from from idiot men who just want to see my boobs"

if you cant put the efort in, then thats your problem and you cant possibly expect to find anyone deacent.

Grrrrr


And now you're whining just like the women you're complaining about. Good job! laugh

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Thu 02/18/10 03:34 PM


I'm pretty sure that every woman that reads that will completely miss your message, and target those typos :wink:


haha, you know i bet your right. Its a good job i have an IQ of 165million to keep me warm on these cold lonely nights huh

and if that doesnt work, i`ll come onto mingle and slag of the self proclaimed nice guys/girls. Then open a thread complaining about how frustrateing it is that i only recieve mails from dumb wemons and its not fair because im so god damn awsome, infact... im a nice guy

contradiction? what contradiction slaphead


Hey Handsome, wanna show me your Moobs?bigsmile

lonetar25's photo
Thu 02/18/10 03:34 PM


wtf happened here

there are a few wemons in here whineing and moaning. the reason men with brains, who are capable of writeing an interesting and funny email, to start to get to know you, well the reason they dont send emails to you, is your whineing moaning men hateing women.

after reading this thread, why would anyone contact you. i suggest you lower your bar and except the grunting cavemen who do mail you.

because otherwise, you`re going to be very lonely up there in your vanity castles.

"men this, men that. wtf is wrong with these damn men"

when it seems to be every man, then its more than likely.... YOU

if you all want to date? then why not write an email about yourself, and send it to all the men in your area?

"because 99% of replys will be from from idiot men who just want to see my boobs"

if you cant put the efort in, then thats your problem and you cant possibly expect to find anyone deacent.

Grrrrr


And now you're whining just like the women you're complaining about. Good job! laugh


im pointing out the floor in the arguement of about 5 wemons, whos opinions are all on display for you to reference

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Thu 02/18/10 03:35 PM



I'm pretty sure that every woman that reads that will completely miss your message, and target those typos :wink:


haha, you know i bet your right. Its a good job i have an IQ of 165million to keep me warm on these cold lonely nights huh

and if that doesnt work, i`ll come onto mingle and slag of the self proclaimed nice guys/girls. Then open a thread complaining about how frustrateing it is that i only recieve mails from dumb wemons and its not fair because im so god damn awsome, infact... im a nice guy

contradiction? what contradiction slaphead


Hey Handsome, wanna show me your Moobs?bigsmile


wanna show me your penis?

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Thu 02/18/10 03:36 PM
Sorry, all I see is whining about why women expect more and how they should do more instead. Both men and women need to put the effort in if they want to get anything out of the site.

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Thu 02/18/10 03:37 PM




I'm pretty sure that every woman that reads that will completely miss your message, and target those typos :wink:


haha, you know i bet your right. Its a good job i have an IQ of 165million to keep me warm on these cold lonely nights huh

and if that doesnt work, i`ll come onto mingle and slag of the self proclaimed nice guys/girls. Then open a thread complaining about how frustrateing it is that i only recieve mails from dumb wemons and its not fair because im so god damn awsome, infact... im a nice guy

contradiction? what contradiction slaphead


Hey Handsome, wanna show me your Moobs?bigsmile


wanna show me your penis?


Lonetar, I was kidding. Thought it might actually get you to smile. I humbly apologize.flowerforyou

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Thu 02/18/10 03:39 PM

Do you think men actually read profiles, or just Drool over the Pictures.....devil
if they're not too long embarassed

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Thu 02/18/10 03:39 PM
Edited by lonetar25 on Thu 02/18/10 03:42 PM

Sorry, all I see is whining about why women expect more and how they should do more instead. Both men and women need to put the effort in if they want to get anything out of the site.


i agree, if anyone wants to find someone then they have to put the time in and look. and that means sifting through the crap to find the dimond.

i was not saying all, or even most, wemons. i was saying these particular wemons


Chrissy, i didnt mean to sound ofensive. i forgot the tongue2

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Thu 02/18/10 03:42 PM


Do you think men actually read profiles, or just Drool over the Pictures.....devil


I read lots of profiles -- since most of them only have 7 or 8 words, it doesn't take long....


...and can be summarized with three words:

Yada, yada, yada.


-Kerry O.

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Thu 02/18/10 03:44 PM


Apparently they do read them, so far I've gotten two emails complaining about mine. Glad to know we do have some literate, albeit opinionated, men amongst us.:thumbsup:


Welcome to the club!

I get people complaining about mine all the time. I'm "wrong" for having different standards than they have. I'm also a horrible person for deliberately excluding them, personally (even though I never knew those particular people existed before they wrote to me), from consideration as dating prospects.

Well, nobody's perfect.


I guess it should be flattering, that out of all the other people who might be interested in them, they choose to focus on the ones who clearly aren't. I guess we're extra special, aren't we?winking

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Thu 02/18/10 03:44 PM


Sorry, all I see is whining about why women expect more and how they should do more instead. Both men and women need to put the effort in if they want to get anything out of the site.


i agree, if anyone wants to find someone then they have to put the time in and look. and that means sifting through the crap to find the dimond.

i was not saying all, or even most, wemons. i was saying these particular wemons


Chrissy, i didnt mean to sound ofensive. i forgot the tongue2


I think some of us just get tired of the same crap from most men here. That's not to say I don't contact men first on my own, though. I'm sure men have the same issues with women here.

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Thu 02/18/10 03:51 PM
howdy doodie yall

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Thu 02/18/10 03:52 PM



I think some of us just get tired of the same crap from most men here. That's not to say I don't contact men first on my own, though. I'm sure men have the same issues with women here.


and i understand and symathyse with you. as a man, im constantly frustrated in the vast amount of uninteligable wemons. also im confused by the fact that as our population doubles, the amount of stupid men, quadruples. work that one out.

all im saying is, there are great people out here, but if you realy want to find one then you`re going to have to wade through the less atractive optoins in order to eliminate them from your search.

just try not to forget that every fool you come across, takes you one fool closer to finding a good man