do a dry-run lapdance first?

I agree - just stay away from the hook up artists & you'll be fine (unless the hook up thing is what u want...but generally the hoo up crowd is not looking for more than that - casual)

ha ha

I've always been an incurable romantic and being a writer, I use the spoken and written with any gift, gesture or date. Usually something short and humorous, however, it has never resulted in a lasting relationship but has provided me with very intense, rewarding friendships. And when a friend and I go out together, I still treat it as if it were a date to the point friends come to expect the unexpected when we go out.

This is the way it works out. I am not complaining because I am still having fun.