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Topic: Dating your ex-girlfriends friend
Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:24 AM
Last night I went to a friends B-day party.
A friend of my ex was there and we basicly spent most the night together
laughing, talking etc.
We exchanged numbers and she left saying call me lets get together
sometime.
I want to see her, but is it appropiate?

no photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:29 AM
i would date a friend of my ex but you always have to be prepared for
what problems the ex might cause between the two of you.

chica42ny's photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:30 AM
I would not because u ex will start talking bull about you.

lionsbrew's photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:33 AM
yeah i have to agree you never what she might tell your freind out of
jealosy because the two of you arent together anymore

no photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:36 AM
that's the kind of stuff i was talkin bout but she would have to
understand the situation in order for it to work and unfortunately alot
of people don't

chica42ny's photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:37 AM
Well like they say where there was fire, some ashes are left behind.
Like evern u don't like her but the sense of seeing you or her with
someone else will get u jealous. Even u don't feel a damn thing.

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:41 AM
Well, I do not talk to my ex, and do not know if she is dating.
But, by now she knows that I was talking to Vivian at the party.
I do not know if I can be a hostage to her foolishness.

chica42ny's photo
Sun 10/08/06 07:45 AM
You know Ontario just ignore, if she speak to you respond back with
respect. Let her know u guys could be friends.

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 08:06 AM
Okay, so I can go out with Vivian... as long as I am polite to my ex?

ukeme's photo
Sun 10/08/06 08:23 AM
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Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 09:21 AM
Okay women, I need your advice... if you were my ex, would you really
care, if you were Vivian and a guy you were attracted to is now
availiable, why not ask him out... after all he ended it with her.

ShagnaC's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:03 AM
I would never ever date a ex's friend, I think it would cause a lot of
problems between everyone, What type of person is that friend if she/he
is going to date her friends ex? I dont think that is much of a friend
so what kind of partner would they really be?
I actually married my kids fathers best friend and they are no longer
friends. As you can see we are no longer married! Big mistake I made.

ShagnaC's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:04 AM
I would be pissed if my friend dated my ex, Hell my friends are so close
to me they wouldnt be that stupid to date my ex as they would know he
was a looser anyway.
I would let go of my friendship with someone if they got with the ex no
questions asked.

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:16 AM
Wow Shagna... why so passionate?
She is not her best friend, and don,t talk on the phone daily,but you
know how women may go to the same hair salon, maybe the same church,
occassionally bump into each other, or meet up at partys.
They know each other, but not like best friends... but still friends.

ShagnaC's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:19 AM
The best advice I can give and this is only my opinion is talk to the ex
and ask her how it would make her feel, You are all adults so we should
communicate like them even if it is to our ex if we feel someone might
be bothered by our actions.
And yes I am a very very passionate person towards life and the people I
let into my world. Not a weak person by far I just know how I would want
to be approached on this matter.

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:31 AM
Shagna... we broke up in May!
I moved and changed my phone number, I do not want any contact with her.
The woman I am talking about is someone I had not seen in years... in
fact I did not remember her she remembered me.
I guess she knew I was no longer with my ex.
Doing our conversation... she never asked about her... well maybe so she
did say she was sorry you and ex did not work out.

chica42ny's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:33 AM
You need to sit down and get all this straighten out. Even if u need to
sit both down and clear the air.

David_Stuart's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:39 AM
hey there nothing wrong with dating a exs friend

ShagnaC's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:48 AM
As long as no one gets hurt or cares then that is when I dont see a
issue with it, but if someone is upset about it then why do it?

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 10:59 AM
Thanks... So I,ll call her this week and ask her out.
I will tell you how it went.

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