Do you think that you finally realize its over when you see your ex
bf/gf with there new partner??? I think I hit that point today in a
brief run-in at the store with my ex. It seems like it set in at that
point and time, bc everyone knows there's really no clean break.
Everyone has contact with there ex from to time right after a break-up.
They'll tell you about someone they met or you'll do the same, but it
dosen't really set in till you see it with your own eyes. So at that
very moment where i saw with my own eyes her and him it hit me. WOW its
really over... So there aint no sunshine when shes gone. What do you
think???

WEll......yes no sunshine for awhile....but later you go through the 5
stages of grief....sometimes being stuck and 10 years later you get over
it!!! You then hit the forgiveness stage...hopefully you get over that
person sooner but everyone is different!

yap

First and foremost: I love that you picked my one of my favorite songs
to title this thread...

Now for the helpful part of my reply: I have been in this very same
situation a time or 2 myself. I personally am very territorial, so
those things don't sit well with me. I can promise you that one day you
will meet someone that makes her sunshine look like a dimming star...

I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and I still think in
the back of my mind, that it's not really over! They say time heals all
wounds, but whoever wrote that could not have been really in
love........at least that's my opinion!

yah there will be sunshine...lots of it...after u have taken the time to
heal.....there will be light soon buddy!! aloha!!

My X loved that song. Too bad men do not realize what they've lost until
it is gone. Some times women do too.

Totally agree.

But then again......i'm thinking...there was too sunshine...right after
i broke her nose and kicked him in the balls....

I guess that's what happens when you catch em cheating...LOL