Topic: Consider Me Gone........
Seakolony's photo
Thu 09/02/10 06:51 AM
Edited by Seakolony on Thu 09/02/10 06:52 AM
Every time I turn the conversation to something deeper
Than the weather I can feel you all but shutting down
And when I need an explanation for the silence you just tell me
You don't wanna talk about it now

What you're not saying is coming in loud and clear
We're at a crossroads here

If I'm not the one thing you can't stand to lose
If I'm not that arrow to the heart of you
If you don't get drunk on my kiss
If you think you can do better than this
Then I guess we're done
Let's not drag this on...Consider me gone

With you I've always been wide open
Like a window or an ocean
There is nothing I've ever tried to hide
So when you leave me not knowing
Where you're goin' I start thinkin'
That we're looking, we're looking at goodbye.

How about a strong shot of honesty
Don't you owe that to me

Consider me a memory...Consider me the past
Consider me a smile in an old photograph
Someone who used to make you laugh

If I'm not the one thing you can't stand to lose
If I'm not that arrow to the heart of you
Then I guess we're done...Let's not drag this on
Consider me gone...Consider me gone
Consider me gone...Just consider me gone

Funny how whenever you want to say something there is always a song that can say it better than you can.......isn't it.......I've always felt this way......

What intiated this......let me tell you..........I decided to give that friend a chance with me.....

I wake up at 5 am Eastern time.......got a text in the middle of the night.....texted back this morning bcs of concern about someone in pain........then I got yelled at texting back bcs it was too early....of course still half asleep I type back that I was texted in the middle of the night...whatever.......and then just get blown out of the water for checking on someone that indicated they were in pain......oops sorry I cared will try not to in the future.....some people can be such as s holes.......rant frustrated

AllenAqua's photo
Thu 09/02/10 06:57 AM
yeah... passive/aggressive people get on my nerves...

Better luck next time flowerforyou

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Thu 09/02/10 07:00 AM
yup some people are just a**es. Live and learn and move forward. That's a big red flag of what things would be like if you continued with it!! You deserve better treatment then that!

Seakolony's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:22 AM
That's kind of how I feel about it......

DonVipond's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:23 AM
seacolony; your post is so true. although the situation i'm in is different. i was married to someone and deviorced a year later. seven years later she's back in my life. we got engaged three years ago and now she just wants to keep our friendship and nothing else.i told her that if she want the friendship she has to be patient with me for to me it's very hard to go from being in love with her to just being friends.

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Thu 09/02/10 07:26 AM
Edited by Startin_anew on Thu 09/02/10 07:27 AM
Don its hard to just switch off those feelings from being somebody's love to being just their friend. Its not an easy thing to do. Sometimes its better just to walk away from it all. Good luck I hope it all works out for you!

DonVipond's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:38 AM

Don its hard to just switch off those feelings from being somebody's love to being just their friend. Its not an easy thing to do. Sometimes its better just to walk away from it all. Good luck I hope it all works out for you!
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it's be 2 month since the separation and thanks to the friend i have made on these sites i have come a long way to being back to normal.... if there is such a thing

DonVipond's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:40 AM
sry still learning hoe tow do this

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Thu 09/02/10 07:41 AM
That is awesome Don...glad to hear that! One day at a time and soon you will be back to as normal as you can be..:smile:

venusenvy's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:43 AM

That's kind of how I feel about it......


No good deed goes unpunished eh...dont let it change who you are though...flowerforyou smooched

DonVipond's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:44 AM
thank you but i dont realy know what normal is

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Thu 09/02/10 07:47 AM

thank you but i dont realy know what normal is


I don't think any of us do...whoa

DonVipond's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:48 AM
i don't think it changes who we are, but i do believe that we are constantly evolving into the person we are supposed to be.

Seakolony's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:49 AM

thank you but i dont realy know what normal is

There is no such thing as normal or unnormal..........the definition of normal goes along with societies dictates......and since I don't necessarily go along with societal dictates don't think I would consider myself normal..........and can I say hallelujah to that......was never my ambition to be normal.....hey good luck to you Don...glad things are on the upswing for you

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Thu 09/02/10 07:51 AM

Every time I turn the conversation to something deeper
Than the weather I can feel you all but shutting down
And when I need an explanation for the silence you just tell me
You don't wanna talk about it now

What you're not saying is coming in loud and clear
We're at a crossroads here

If I'm not the one thing you can't stand to lose
If I'm not that arrow to the heart of you
If you don't get drunk on my kiss
If you think you can do better than this
Then I guess we're done
Let's not drag this on...Consider me gone

With you I've always been wide open
Like a window or an ocean
There is nothing I've ever tried to hide
So when you leave me not knowing
Where you're goin' I start thinkin'
That we're looking, we're looking at goodbye.

How about a strong shot of honesty
Don't you owe that to me

Consider me a memory...Consider me the past
Consider me a smile in an old photograph
Someone who used to make you laugh

If I'm not the one thing you can't stand to lose
If I'm not that arrow to the heart of you
Then I guess we're done...Let's not drag this on
Consider me gone...Consider me gone
Consider me gone...Just consider me gone

Funny how whenever you want to say something there is always a song that can say it better than you can.......isn't it.......I've always felt this way......

What intiated this......let me tell you..........I decided to give that friend a chance with me.....

I wake up at 5 am Eastern time.......got a text in the middle of the night.....texted back this morning bcs of concern about someone in pain........then I got yelled at texting back bcs it was too early....of course still half asleep I type back that I was texted in the middle of the night...whatever.......and then just get blown out of the water for checking on someone that indicated they were in pain......oops sorry I cared will try not to in the future.....some people can be such as s holes.......rant frustrated
When in a romance, both should have NO-TIME limits on troubled thoughts of the other one hurting, and both should be COOL, with their desire to be worried.....IF NOT, then why BE?
I liked your poem here, as it hits many thoughts of life for me....thanks.
Good luck on getting you two on the same page, or flipping that page,,wink..

DonVipond's photo
Thu 09/02/10 07:55 AM
thank you all been fun gotta go. huggs

Seakolony's photo
Thu 09/02/10 08:02 AM


Every time I turn the conversation to something deeper
Than the weather I can feel you all but shutting down
And when I need an explanation for the silence you just tell me
You don't wanna talk about it now

What you're not saying is coming in loud and clear
We're at a crossroads here

If I'm not the one thing you can't stand to lose
If I'm not that arrow to the heart of you
If you don't get drunk on my kiss
If you think you can do better than this
Then I guess we're done
Let's not drag this on...Consider me gone

With you I've always been wide open
Like a window or an ocean
There is nothing I've ever tried to hide
So when you leave me not knowing
Where you're goin' I start thinkin'
That we're looking, we're looking at goodbye.

How about a strong shot of honesty
Don't you owe that to me

Consider me a memory...Consider me the past
Consider me a smile in an old photograph
Someone who used to make you laugh

If I'm not the one thing you can't stand to lose
If I'm not that arrow to the heart of you
Then I guess we're done...Let's not drag this on
Consider me gone...Consider me gone
Consider me gone...Just consider me gone

Funny how whenever you want to say something there is always a song that can say it better than you can.......isn't it.......I've always felt this way......

What intiated this......let me tell you..........I decided to give that friend a chance with me.....

I wake up at 5 am Eastern time.......got a text in the middle of the night.....texted back this morning bcs of concern about someone in pain........then I got yelled at texting back bcs it was too early....of course still half asleep I type back that I was texted in the middle of the night...whatever.......and then just get blown out of the water for checking on someone that indicated they were in pain......oops sorry I cared will try not to in the future.....some people can be such as s holes.......rant frustrated
When in a romance, both should have NO-TIME limits on troubled thoughts of the other one hurting, and both should be COOL, with their desire to be worried.....IF NOT, then why BE?
I liked your poem here, as it hits many thoughts of life for me....thanks.
Good luck on getting you two on the same page, or flipping that page,,wink..

Wish I could take credit but gotta give the poem credit to Reba McIntyre who sang it and whoever wrote it