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3) If you are are a bbw...avoid pics that may contribute towards you being a bbw. Although there is certainly a segment of dudes out there that like bbw's, don't narrow your market of those that are sitting on the fence by glorifying your eating habits. This kind of pissed me off a little bit just because i am a BBW does NOT mean i have any "eating habits" I am big because of a medical condition. Not because i like to "eat too much" you should never tell someone to post a picture of them hiding who they are or to please a certain group of people. If they don;t like you for you then they aren't worth your time anyways. Thanks for the advice but i'll stick to what i already know and what has worked for me. it wasn't meant to offend you... i am simply saying that it isn't flattering. understandably some people are bigger or smaller than others and there are preconceived notions that go with that. it does not matter if they are right or wrong. If you have only a few seconds to make a first impression, make the best of it. for example, if a woman says she doen't do drugs, but is surrounded by her roommates drug paraphernalia...it doesn't support her case. |
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3) If you are are a bbw...avoid pics that may contribute towards you being a bbw. Although there is certainly a segment of dudes out there that like bbw's, don't narrow your market of those that are sitting on the fence by glorifying your eating habits. I'm part of this 'segment' and that's essentally what I'm looking for. It helps to know if you are a BBW by putting up a pic of you as you are. I'll keep on scrolling through if you don't. That's just my opinion. As far as your profile is concerned...less is more! you don't want to have a blank profile, but fortunately or unfortunately, most dudes don't have the patience to read an extensive profile...that's just the way it is. Hit some of your major likes and dislikes, but make sure that you put double your likes 2:1 over your dislikes. this I agree with. I won't read through an essay of your favourite songs and colours etc. I want a summary of you, so I still am armed with a few questions if we chat. Mind you, I understand that women like the total opposite - ain't that always the way! |
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For the record... guys LOVE my artwork
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Edited by
msmyka
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Wed 09/08/10 03:17 PM
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I'm part of this 'segment' and that's essentally what I'm looking for. It helps to know if you are a BBW by putting up a pic of you as you are. I'll keep on scrolling through if you don't. That's just my opinion. It's not your beauty it's your booty  |
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For the record... guys LOVE my artwork Indeed they do... |
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I think you miss the point...that isn't what I'm saying at all. I am just simply saying that if you are trying to make an impression, shock is usually not the best choice. If you were to tell me, 'the only guy out there for me is a guy that has as much body art and piercings as I do!' I'd say you're not in touch with yourself. You're only living in the moment and not seeing the big picture. Of course there are guys out there that appreciate body art...I am one of them. Then there are those that are accepting of it and of course those that cannot stand it. Why place limits on yourself? As far as the profile content...well you are speaking from a womans point of view...I was pretty clear that I am posting from a male perspective. I think that it is fairly well established fact that guys don't like long profiles...of course there are exceptions. If you like guys to have long profiles, then I suggest you write a post on what you would recommend for a guy to write in his profile. Chicks dig the long profiles.........  I prefer thick ones 
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3) If you are are a bbw...avoid pics that may contribute towards you being a bbw. Although there is certainly a segment of dudes out there that like bbw's, don't narrow your market of those that are sitting on the fence by glorifying your eating habits. This kind of pissed me off a little bit just because i am a BBW does NOT mean i have any "eating habits" I am big because of a medical condition. Not because i like to "eat too much" you should never tell someone to post a picture of them hiding who they are or to please a certain group of people. If they don;t like you for you then they aren't worth your time anyways. Thanks for the advice but i'll stick to what i already know and what has worked for me.   You go girl!!
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