to love some one so much you hate them. or to hate some one so much you
love them

Neither...As long as you let others control your emotions, you will
never move beyond where you are. Love is a decision of the heart, hate
is a decision of the mind. Love is natural, hate takes work. It is much
easier to love than to hate. If you are trying to move forward, don't
look back, just take the lessons you've learned with you...

i like your answer

Love is a natural human emotion, one that blind sides us most of the
time. Hate is also a basic natural human emotion,usually based in anger,
it is how you react that takes you a step apart and able to move ahead.

I agree with sweetcountrygirl that you have to learn the lessons from
past relationships and move forward with new knowledge to help you
fulfill your life. If you don't learn the lesson you are doomed to
repeat the actions that bring you to that conclusion in relationships.

i had a girlfriend that hated me but never wanted me to leave, it's not
a good situation to be in. i left anyway and it could have ended a whole
lot better.

Ha! Is this a lovers paradox?