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I'm confused as well. You say you can 'maintain a friendship' and then say "be so close and hit it off" .. So? Is it a friendship or are you BOTH interested in each other? Is he actually interested or just responding to your initial text ie .. with a comeback?  I dont mean hit it off, like in a weird way. I mean it's nice to be able to meet and both be good looking and fun and have similiar interests. I am just looking for cool friends right now. Nothing more. Of course i am just saying it was nice for someone to apologize because to be so local is very weird. As far as this person reading this doesnt really matter, because it's anonymous,plus this person doesnt go into the forums anyways. i havnt named any names, advice--- not looking for advice, I was just saying Hooray- because i thought it was a friendship lost but isnt. Not looking for romantics in here. Just divorced from twelwve year relationship. No rush for me. |
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I'm lost in this one as much as the other one. Anyway....I wish the best  Read post #346, and then you'll understand. I've read it all....still don't get it I guess. Like him one minute, bad kisser another, etc.  I believe Ocean dug him (1st date), and was sorta stood up for 2nd date. As a result, she bashed him on the thread that someone referenced, and now she's seeing him again (I think.....). It's kinda like a "soap opera"..so wtf do I know at this point?! Correct me if I'm wrong, Ms. OBlue........it's been a long day!!! we went out twice as in met up---both times had a fun time, got along. there was no 3rd date scheduled so not sure about being stood up. . .what I mentioned on the earlier thread was i dont understand when you have a great time with someone (and it was a non-sexual) and everything goes great and then you both agree to call each other the next day and doesnt happen. . .sends mixed signals. I get by most of your confusion that many of you are not from big cities and have a hard time following busy stories. Sorry. |
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I'm lost in this one as much as the other one. Anyway....I wish the best Read post #346, and then you'll understand. I've read it all....still don't get it I guess. Like him one minute, bad kisser another, etc. I believe Ocean dug him (1st date), and was sorta stood up for 2nd date. As a result, she bashed him on the thread that someone referenced, and now she's seeing him again (I think.....). It's kinda like a "soap opera"..so wtf do I know at this point?! Correct me if I'm wrong, Ms. OBlue........it's been a long day!!! we went out twice as in met up---both times had a fun time, got along. there was no 3rd date scheduled so not sure about being stood up. . .what I mentioned on the earlier thread was i dont understand when you have a great time with someone (and it was a non-sexual) and everything goes great and then you both agree to call each other the next day and doesnt happen. . .sends mixed signals. I get by most of your confusion that many of you are not from big cities and have a hard time following busy stories. Sorry. You are really stuck on being from "The OC." It is really not that cool a place, sure the bus system is great, but the people there are amazingly pretentious and think they are somehow better because of some lame reality show. The weather and beaches are much nicer in san diego. That being said, if it is just a friendship don't get all worked up about when he does or doesn't text. I go for weeks at a time without talking to my friends. If you want relationship rules to appily you have to at least make it a little sexual, otherwise you get friendship rules. Which is text whenever you feel like it. |
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Was that really necessary to slam people from Orange County?
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Was that really necessary to slam people from Orange County? actually no, not really. I am not saying all people from the OC are pretentious, but it is the attitude I get most when I visit there. Just not my type of people I guess. |
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Im not hung up on him being from OC< I am from OC> I have met a lot of guys from LA as well. It's just convenient more than anything. I just like to get out and have fun sometimes, I have three kids, it's a necessity.
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