If there was one thing you could say that you learnt from your old
relationships then what would it be?

that they r not as nice as you may think

I'll go along with that !!!

AND ,, not to do that again !!

relationships are hard. but sex is fun. lol

That sometimes. no matter how good it is. Shit Happens. Just because
you have a good relationship does not mean they are the one for you.

I think that we really learn more about ourselves after a
relationship, or we should. Also, just because the relationship ended,
doesn't mean that there was anything wrong with either one of the two,
just that they weren't compatible. Besides, learning more about yourself
and the kind of people that you are looking for, or attract, will help
you in future relationships.

Not to give it such a good descriptive word, I prefer to rank it as a
mistake -note to self -not to do that again!!
The letters in EX are also included in Hex and that is what happens ,
you are hexed and think you are in love and then they really mess you up

I've learned that you have to go through bad relationships to learn more
about who you are as an individual, reflect on it, and grow stronger.
Not many people find what they're looking for in their first
relationship.

Not to give up on your dreams for someone. Don't settle for someone just
because they are there. Don't think that because they say they love you,
that they feel the same as you are thinking. Live for yourself before
anyone else, cause that's the only person you can count on. Though
sometimes you can't even count on that. Don't puch for them to love you
and compromise. Even just a little, cause a little can go a long ways.
Most of all....

Be yourself.

That was more than one, sorry.

Good stuff Fyresyren. I have learned to let people reveal themselves to
me. No matter what you ask and what they say its never as good as
watching the actions they show you. Some people dont really know
themselves well and cant see themselves clearly enough. ITs best to
just wait it out.

if it was a mistake the first time around you will learn from that and
not let it happen again. I was always told to learn from your mistakes.

i have learned the people to fear the most and be catious about the most
are friends and family if they dont like you or other my ex's best
friend had a crush on me so she tried to break us up she told my ex that
i wanted to be with her and not my ex that i didnt say any thing because
i didnt want to hurt her feelings and that i was telling her best friend
that i wanted to be with her

The one thing I learn from my ex is to stay on my P&Q's.
Everything that looks good isn't.I don't care how much they
throw in front you ,leave it right there,give it away ,put it on
e-bay.....STUDY IT!!!!!

I LEARNED FROM THE EX WAS NOT TO SPEND MONEY ON THEM DAILY OR
WEEKLY.WHEN THAT HAPPENS THEY WILL EXPECT IT ALL THE TIME,I HAVE TO
LEARN TO SPACE IT OUT.I AM ROMANTIC ENOUGH TO NO HOW TO SPACE IT
OUT.TRYING TO LEARN TO GIVE WHEN IT IS NOT EXPECTED TO BE GIVEN.IT SEEMS
TO BE MORE APRECIATED.IF SHE IS GREEDY.THEN GUESS WHAT?GOOD BY.I WANT TO
SPOIL THE GIRL I AM WITH LOVE AND EFFECTION.NOT MATERIAL THINGS.THAT IS
WHAT I LEARNED

thanks for that summation dr.

Not a dam thing, What i have learned from my exrelationship was
something i already knew.Just live life,relax and go with the flow.If
someone else happens your way don`t judge that person by what happen to
by someone else.because you never really know until you get in what the
water is like.i do agree with fyresyren don`t give up.

That's really sweet.

I don't understand why there are material girls out there. Do they want
material things because they think it will make them happy? It's prolly
just me, but I don't get the material thing. If I ever miraculously got
anything, I felt wierd about it and kind of sad I didn't get them
anything.

As Dory said, "Just keep swimming Just keep swimming, swimming,
swimming..."

(I love Dory! She reminds me of me when I'm tired!)

I think the material girls are born out of lack of feelings. Men can do
the same thing, i know a few guys that are in it to get laid and the
woman are in it to get paid :P Many different people in this world.

Fyresyren,I kind know how you feel,up until a little while ago i felt
the same way.But now i understand that if someone gives you something as
a gift then there not expecting something in return.And a lot of times
it makes them feel really good if you just except it in the manner it
was givin.