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Can it be unconditional in this age and time? unconditional love would mean one is willing to do anything for love.....even kill ....that's called obsession i think it's the opposite. unconditional love doesn't depend on what you are willing to do or not do. it's more of what the other person does or doesn't do, but you continue to love them regardless. Love is supposedly feelings spread equally among two participates...if it's all about what the other person does or doesn't do then you are no longer in the equation and that's not love...that's obsession and/or addiction grow up... love is a choice. if it's all about feelings to ya' then you're just a kid... yep "Teditis".. that is how love is suppose to work...it's all about feelings ...and if love is a choice as you say ..then would you mind sharing how many times that you told someone that you loved them but didn't have any feelings for them .... I'm not your educator... if you can't destinguish between having feelings and acting on them, or not acting on them, I can't help ya... but you have it backwards... first we feel. then we choose to love or not. not vice versa... Funches... go get evaluated for autism. you have issues that you don't recognize... jmo. |
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that's not the first time funches has been recommended gettng an evaluation done...
 
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In my experiance love dosent exist anymore.
There is lust, desire, obsession, just being comfortable with someone because they just didn't leave in the morning, even infatuation, but love hasen't existed in hundreds of years. Just my opinion, and like a$$holes, everyone has one. |
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Can it be unconditional in this age and time? unconditional love would mean one is willing to do anything for love.....even kill ....that's called obsession i think it's the opposite. unconditional love doesn't depend on what you are willing to do or not do. it's more of what the other person does or doesn't do, but you continue to love them regardless. Love is supposedly feelings spread equally among two participates...if it's all about what the other person does or doesn't do then you are no longer in the equation and that's not love...that's obsession and/or addiction grow up... love is a choice. if it's all about feelings to ya' then you're just a kid... yep "Teditis".. that is how love is suppose to work...it's all about feelings ...and if love is a choice as you say ..then would you mind sharing how many times that you told someone that you loved them but didn't have any feelings for them .... I'm not your educator... if you can't destinguish between having feelings and acting on them, or not acting on them, I can't help ya... but you have it backwards... first we feel. then we choose to love or not. not vice versa... Funches... go get evaluated for autism. you have issues that you don't recognize... jmo. "teditis" temper temper ...no need to hand out insults...but anyway..I knew if I ask you that question that you would realized that love is all about feelings and not about choice like you claimed .... |
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that's not the first time funches has been recommended gettng an evaluation done... Jess ..are you stilll holding a grudge because I told you that you need to eat a sandwich? ....Jeez that was about three years ago...come on let it go and let's be best friends |
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Can it be unconditional in this age and time? unconditional love would mean one is willing to do anything for love.....even kill ....that's called obsession i think it's the opposite. unconditional love doesn't depend on what you are willing to do or not do. it's more of what the other person does or doesn't do, but you continue to love them regardless. Love is supposedly feelings spread equally among two participates...if it's all about what the other person does or doesn't do then you are no longer in the equation and that's not love...that's obsession and/or addiction grow up... love is a choice. if it's all about feelings to ya' then you're just a kid... yep "Teditis".. that is how love is suppose to work...it's all about feelings ...and if love is a choice as you say ..then would you mind sharing how many times that you told someone that you loved them but didn't have any feelings for them .... I'm not your educator... if you can't destinguish between having feelings and acting on them, or not acting on them, I can't help ya... but you have it backwards... first we feel. then we choose to love or not. not vice versa... Funches... go get evaluated for autism. you have issues that you don't recognize... jmo. "teditis" temper temper ...no need to hand out insults...but anyway..I knew if I ask you that question that you would realized that love is all about feelings and not about choice like you claimed .... Excellent point Funches... It is foolishness to try to convince a delusional person that their thinking is delusional... my bad. I was foolish. Still, I would be remiss not to, again, recommend professional help. And just as a point in fact... I have no anger towards you. Frustration? yes, sometimes... that thinking of yours... that you believe you possess wisdom and only demonstrate unawareness. You argue points, ad nauseum, but completely off topic... pretending that you are on topic but at a more philosophic level than your peers... I see it as delusional. You have IQ... but lack wisdom and social awareness; your education is weak, but more than sufficient to get by in life... that you pretend to have more than you do is humorous... but that's trivial. You have potential... but no desire to change. This is sad to me. I would hope for more for you... but you'll only see this as criticism. oh well. You enjoy critics... your banquet to argue. I'd hope that someday you might see peeps who disagree with you are not always your enemy. These forums aren't designed for your whimsical advesarial rantings... jmo, but do what ya' like. But the deal is this... you are just a internet, digital constuct... I simply don't care enough about you personally to get temperamental about. Doesn't mean I'm your enemy... just that I'm not moved easily by anothers plight. I've got my own to deal with... Being autistic is no shame... intelligence/wisdom/social awareness is all a spectrum thing anyway. If you see it as an insult... that's on you. |
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Can it be unconditional in this age and time? unconditional love would mean one is willing to do anything for love.....even kill ....that's called obsession i think it's the opposite. unconditional love doesn't depend on what you are willing to do or not do. it's more of what the other person does or doesn't do, but you continue to love them regardless. Love is supposedly feelings spread equally among two participates...if it's all about what the other person does or doesn't do then you are no longer in the equation and that's not love...that's obsession and/or addiction grow up... love is a choice. if it's all about feelings to ya' then you're just a kid... yep "Teditis".. that is how love is suppose to work...it's all about feelings ...and if love is a choice as you say ..then would you mind sharing how many times that you told someone that you loved them but didn't have any feelings for them .... I'm not your educator... if you can't destinguish between having feelings and acting on them, or not acting on them, I can't help ya... but you have it backwards... first we feel. then we choose to love or not. not vice versa... Funches... go get evaluated for autism. you have issues that you don't recognize... jmo. "teditis" temper temper ...no need to hand out insults...but anyway..I knew if I ask you that question that you would realized that love is all about feelings and not about choice like you claimed .... Excellent point Funches... It is foolishness to try to convince a delusional person that their thinking is delusional... my bad. I was foolish. Still, I would be remiss not to, again, recommend professional help. And just as a point in fact... I have no anger towards you. Frustration? yes, sometimes... that thinking of yours... that you believe you possess wisdom and only demonstrate unawareness. You argue points, ad nauseum, but completely off topic... pretending that you are on topic but at a more philosophic level than your peers... I see it as delusional. You have IQ... but lack wisdom and social awareness; your education is weak, but more than sufficient to get by in life... that you pretend to have more than you do is humorous... but that's trivial. You have potential... but no desire to change. This is sad to me. I would hope for more for you... but you'll only see this as criticism. oh well. You enjoy critics... your banquet to argue. I'd hope that someday you might see peeps who disagree with you are not always your enemy. These forums aren't designed for your whimsical advesarial rantings... jmo, but do what ya' like. But the deal is this... you are just a internet, digital constuct... I simply don't care enough about you personally to get temperamental about. Doesn't mean I'm your enemy... just that I'm not moved easily by anothers plight. I've got my own to deal with... Being autistic is no shame... intelligence/wisdom/social awareness is all a spectrum thing anyway. If you see it as an insult... that's on you. "Teditis".. because I showed you that you were in error is no need to use autism as a way to hurl insults....there are people on this site that probably have family friends and even children that may have autism ...so try and curb your temper and show them some "LOVE" by not making light of their condition..... |
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Can it be unconditional in this age and time? What is "unconditional love", and, who does it apply too? Everyone? Or just our family - mates/partners/lovers included? I believe once those questions are answered, the next question should be, "Can we truly handle the responsibility of unconditional love?" It's not a matter of whether it can or cannot "be" or "exist" in this time and age. Of course it can, and does. It's a matter of accepting a very common-sense truth: We are all different from each other, yet, we're the same. We all, everyone of us, have fears, hopes, dreams, wants, needs, etc... And we are all imperfect to some degree or another. If it's possible to "unconditionally" love people in your circle of family and friends, over-looking their "imperfections", why then be so critical of the rest of the world? Can you truly love your mate/partner/lover unconditionally? It is really a remarkable thing to love your lover unconditionally. With-out condition; do what you want, go where you want, leave/return when you want, be who/what you want, etc... To love someone so much, never judging, never expecting, always accepting can be difficult. There are many "influences" that need consideration. This may lead to the "follow-up" question: Does everyone deserve unconditional love? |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 10/10/10 12:31 PM
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that's not the first time funches has been recommended gettng an evaluation done... Jess ..are you stilll holding a grudge because I told you that you need to eat a sandwich? ....Jeez that was about three years ago...come on let it go and let's be best friends Funches....hell no, I think I took your suggestion and made one.... however I enjoy reading your provocative and sometimes infammatory insights....and the responses you get... 
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love is a feeling?
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