When you first fell in love. Was it by there attraction or a at first site? Were you nerves and how did you react? were you both nerves or did you both act goofy? And how did you both no you both were a perfect match? Is it true that opposites always work out?

I first fell into lust and believed it was love.

It was there by attraction, not love at first sight.

A definite case of nerves for both of us. Chalk it up to the thrill of the chase or, being too young to know better or, whatever. The butterflies were there.

I'm not sure what made us think we were a perfect match. The chemistry, I suppose. He claimed his hopes, dreams, and goals were similar to mine. However, once we were married his plans changed dramatically.

If I remember correctly, the 'opposites attract' deal comes from Astrology (i.e. opposing zodiac signs are supposed to be the ideal match for relationships). My first love was a Sagittarius. I'm a Taurus. We are not astrological opposites. So, I really can't tell you if opposites always work out.

Thank you for you true opinion! Lilolmefromsd you seem very truthful and real..flowerforyou: : thanks

You're welcome. :)

you can hit attraction head on, you fall into love and it's wonderful catching each other. anytime i've met someone for the first time, the anticipation has caused nervousness, but that has always dissipated fast and comfortable set in. when it's perfect, you just know, that's what makes it perfect. and i think there's a fascination in opposites, but i have found that similarities endure.

I'm not sure that many people know what love is, given the ever-increasing divorce rate and shocking number of children that are neglected.

Although, love is a cool story to tell to people when you don't know what the hell you are talking about because you can make it up off the top of your head. As long as there is a 'happily ever-after' in there you are solid, make sure you start with 'once upon a time' though.

-Smartass signing off.