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Pull my finger
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Pull my finger |
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  Now don't pull my leg either.
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. So you wait around for women to let you know they're interested? Why? Speak up. Just like women should speak up if they're interested in someone. I don't get all the waiting around. |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. So you wait around for women to let you know they're interested? Why? Speak up. Just like women should speak up if they're interested in someone. I don't get all the waiting around. Most of the time, I do wait, but's something I'm slowly working on. In the past I always had plenty of women coming to me that I never had to be an 'initiator', so I'm not used to it. |
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Confidence is key. Especially early on in dating.
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Confidence is key. Especially early on in dating. Confidence isn't an issue because I'm super awesome. 
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Though from what you said earlier, it does seem like confidence is an issue if you're just waiting around for others to let you know they're interested.
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Though from what you said earlier, it does seem like confidence is an issue if you're just waiting around for others to let you know they're interested. It's more of just not being used to it and wasting my time by getting the wrong signals. |
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True Story.....
I was driving close to 3 hrs to meet for lunch, first date......I smoke..drink coffee....... So I stopped at a rest area washed up, brushed teeth, and changed from blue jeans and T-shirt to slacks and nice shirt, freshly shined shoes. And thats what I did every time I drove down to see her. We are still together too.
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True Story..... I was driving close to 3 hrs to meet for lunch, first date......I smoke..drink coffee....... So I stopped at a rest area washed up, brushed teeth, and changed from blue jeans and T-shirt to slacks and nice shirt, freshly shined shoes. And thats what I did every time I drove down to see her. We are still together too.
That's a bunch more than I've ever done. What you see is what you get! However, there were a few times I popped an Altoid or two before hand. |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. I always liked the obvious hints like dancing in the bonfire at my birthday party-hehe! |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. I always liked the obvious hints like dancing in the bonfire at my birthday party-hehe! But, I think that was a hint that either there was a little too much alcohol ingestion or a major need for an eye check-up. |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. I always liked the obvious hints like dancing in the bonfire at my birthday party-hehe! But, I think that was a hint that either there was a little too much alcohol ingestion or a major need for an eye check-up. Haha-both I think! Guess I don't get hints too well either 
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. I always liked the obvious hints like dancing in the bonfire at my birthday party-hehe! But, I think that was a hint that either there was a little too much alcohol ingestion or a major need for an eye check-up. Haha-both I think! Guess I don't get hints too well either
At least I think you got the hint on who should (or shouldn't) change plugs.
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. I always liked the obvious hints like dancing in the bonfire at my birthday party-hehe! But, I think that was a hint that either there was a little too much alcohol ingestion or a major need for an eye check-up. Haha-both I think! Guess I don't get hints too well either
At least I think you got the hint on who should (or shouldn't) change plugs.
Ugh-don't know what I was thinking with that one! He's never been bright! We helped each other through some tough times though. |
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I didn't realize how big of a part self confidence played in the dating world until I had to get back into the dating world again. Don't: Contact him after the date. If he had a good time he will get a hold of you. Do: Flirt it up!! Don't follow silly rules. If either person had a good time, let the other person know. I agree. I'm horrible at reading women with that sort of thing and even worse at taking hints, so unless she staples a note to my forehead saying otherwise, it's always possible that I might think she's not interested and I'll move on. That's one reason I've mostly always been the chasee and not the chaser. I always liked the obvious hints like dancing in the bonfire at my birthday party-hehe! But, I think that was a hint that either there was a little too much alcohol ingestion or a major need for an eye check-up. Haha-both I think! Guess I don't get hints too well either
At least I think you got the hint on who should (or shouldn't) change plugs.
Ugh-don't know what I was thinking with that one! He's never been bright! We helped each other through some tough times though. Same with my cat, but I know better than to let him touch my vehicles!
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