Topic: Hhmm..
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Sun 01/30/11 06:41 AM


I never get hit on, therefore I think that any woman that talks to me is hitting on me..or something like that...
so gotta stop talking to you blushing pitchfork oops



are you hitting on me ????? embarassed

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Sun 01/30/11 06:46 AM



I never get hit on, therefore I think that any woman that talks to me is hitting on me..or something like that...
so gotta stop talking to you blushing pitchfork oops



are you hitting on me ????? embarassed
oh god
that felt soooooooo good ....drool

uhhmmmm where was i
ohhhh ok
no i wasn't
ha!

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Sun 01/30/11 06:48 AM




I never get hit on, therefore I think that any woman that talks to me is hitting on me..or something like that...
so gotta stop talking to you blushing pitchfork oops



are you hitting on me ????? embarassed
oh god
that felt soooooooo good ....drool

uhhmmmm where was i
ohhhh ok
no i wasn't
ha!
see what I mean sad

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Sun 01/30/11 06:52 AM


Do you tend to think that more people are
hitting on you when you're "desperate" or
looking, or when you're "occupied"?


I don't guess at motivations on a dating site.
They seem pretty obvious. I would say 'less'
lookers when occupied as I am less..friendly :-)


How do YOU know when someone is hitting on
you in a subtle way, or just being friendly?


It is a dating site. I have not seen this
'subtlety' tool being wielded by a man.


Does looking or not looking make a difference
on the way you pick things up?


Actually, I feel free to 'tease' more when not
looking. I am not fond of 'leading' someone on.
On either side.


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Sun 01/30/11 06:52 AM
If you really want to know if they are seriously interested....email them and start a conversation. If they are not interested, at some point they will stop responding to your emails. It's only a small "owie" when they stop.

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Sun 01/30/11 06:57 AM
your right i should stop that
Ha

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Sun 01/30/11 06:58 AM

Do you tend to think that more people are hitting on you when you're "desperate" or looking, or when you're "occupied"?


It has always been either feast or famine. When I'm with someone, there are always others who want me; when I'm not, I can't find anyone even remotely interested (or interesting).


How do YOU know when someone is hitting on you in a subtle way, or just being friendly? Does looking or not looking make a difference on the way you pick things up?


I'm pretty much oblivious to the whole thing -- I have no idea when someone is expressing interest. If not for people asking, "Hey, did you notice the way she was hitting on you?" I'd never know it even happened.

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Sun 01/30/11 06:59 AM

If you really want to know if they are seriously interested....email them and start a conversation. If they are not interested, at some point they will stop responding to your emails. It's only a small "owie" when they stop.
but I have a problem with that. I feel I have to respond to every message. so if she keeps writing I HAVE to keep responding. sheesh, that could go on forever slaphead

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Sun 01/30/11 07:01 AM


If you really want to know if they are seriously interested....email them and start a conversation. If they are not interested, at some point they will stop responding to your emails. It's only a small "owie" when they stop.
but I have a problem with that. I feel I have to respond to every message. so if she keeps writing I HAVE to keep responding. sheesh, that could go on forever slaphead


That's because you are such a sweetheart. flowerforyou

It's better not to lead someone on if you're not interested. Unless you make it clear that you like emailing as just friends. :smile:

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Sun 01/30/11 07:02 AM



If you really want to know if they are seriously interested....email them and start a conversation. If they are not interested, at some point they will stop responding to your emails. It's only a small "owie" when they stop.
but I have a problem with that. I feel I have to respond to every message. so if she keeps writing I HAVE to keep responding. sheesh, that could go on forever slaphead


That's because you are such a sweetheart. flowerforyou

It's better not to lead someone on if you're not interested. Unless you make it clear that you like emailing as just friends. :smile:
I will let the know and just hope they don't respond laugh

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Sun 01/30/11 07:08 AM

I will let the know and just hope they don't respond laugh

laugh

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Sun 01/30/11 07:11 AM


Do you tend to think that more people are hitting on you when you're "desperate" or looking, or when you're "occupied"?


It has always been either feast or famine. When I'm with someone, there are always others who want me; when I'm not, I can't find anyone even remotely interested (or interesting).


How do YOU know when someone is hitting on you in a subtle way, or just being friendly? Does looking or not looking make a difference on the way you pick things up?


I'm pretty much oblivious to the whole thing -- I have no idea when someone is expressing interest. If not for people asking, "Hey, did you notice the way she was hitting on you?" I'd never know it even happened.
Ha, talk about blind as a bat ......

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Sun 01/30/11 07:14 AM
people don't hit on me.
well.
i don't take it as they're hitting on me.
makes things awkward.

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Sun 01/30/11 07:16 AM

people don't hit on me.
well.
i don't take it as they're hitting on me.
makes things awkward.

:wink: flowerforyou flowers :wink:

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Sun 01/30/11 09:11 AM
doesn't matter if i'm in a relationship or not, women hit on me a lot. i just wish they wouldn't use a baseball bat

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Sun 01/30/11 09:18 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 01/30/11 09:34 AM

So, we're kinda always looking for more or something better?


I think that is a maturity issue, no, not in a mature relationship that is a love relationship

as for the OP - I have always been pretty oblivious as to being hit on and all of that. I think I'm hit on more often when single - at times in a relationship I am usually either with my guy or talking about him (when random guys talk to me I always manage to throw my guy's name into the convo so they know I'm attached if I am attached at that time)



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Sun 01/30/11 09:21 AM

doesn't matter if i'm in a relationship or not, women hit on me a lot. i just wish they wouldn't use a baseball bat



hey I have a few cast iron skillets we can use...JK_LOL! how u been lately, bulldog? did ya see my new tattoo yet?

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Sun 01/30/11 09:32 AM

doesn't matter if i'm in a relationship or not,
women hit on me a lot. i just wish they wouldn't
use a baseball bat

Quit throwing your balls at them.

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Sun 01/30/11 09:36 AM


doesn't matter if i'm in a relationship or not, women hit on me a lot. i just wish they wouldn't use a baseball bat



hey I have a few cast iron skillets we can use...JK_LOL! how u been lately, bulldog? did ya see my new tattoo yet?


i've been shot down in flames recently (again for the umteenth time) and i have not seen your new tattoo. can you post a picture of it

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Sun 01/30/11 09:37 AM


doesn't matter if i'm in a relationship or not,
women hit on me a lot. i just wish they wouldn't
use a baseball bat

Quit throwing your balls at them.

frustrated