It think you should take the advice from your local police as they are the ones that answer the trespassing calls.

And I think it makes sense to use the light when it is dark out to deter the bad guys ;-)

The marriage is already dead, one more body
won't make a difference.

Now everyone knows you are a charmer.
Keep your head down ;-)

Two nights in Vegas, one with Elvis.

But it stays in Vegas ;-)

You charmer ;-)

Nailed it ;-)

For the sheer volume of choices you may be right.

But alas, men seemed tied to what they see only
on the outside, makes them look better and also
makes them stand out to their friends, arm candy
seems to win the day. Women can be mean, biotchy
and calculating, but because of their looks, they
are swamped with attention.

Had the post been a 'chick' the advice might still
be the same, but I simply cannot vouch for men's
reactions..how many men do you know who would be
proud to have an 'ugly' chick on their arm?

Charles Bronson was a star but realistic about
his looks..he needn't have worried, women see
character and truthfulness long before handsome.

Man or woman, charm can go a long way.

Oh yes. put new tree lights on the Xmas
tree, still up after 3-4 years ;-)

Yes.

Cold enough for a nice fire here, too...cozy,
an island of peace in a frigid world.

Now, my weekend is Thursday/Friday as that is
when the mate is off, who further confuses me
by calling Thursday/Friday, his Saturday/Sunday.

For all I know this could be Wednesday ;-)

But for you I will say Happy Sunday ;-)

I remember thinking I was glad I was on dry
land when the Red Sea parted.

Good boy.

I suggest your best bet to find someone in a specific location:
>>>Community>>>Settings

https://mingle2.com/forum/settings

I have put Settings before Community in that link
because you can immediately see what you have
already selected as choices, from which you can
add or delete.

As you seem sincere, maybe it is you..entirely.
You project who you are by your words, actions
and reactions.

You also project that you expect failure.
Then you give them reasons, handy.

I have a fat friend who every time you come into
her presence will tell a fat joke. I assume to get
there before anyone else can, as armor.

I am very different from you.
The assumption I make is always, that they will
like me. I went to 4 high schools, it was always
the same. Always had a smile, a nod, a sympathy
look for strangers.

Do you? Or are you so poor, focused on the
expectation of rejection that you cannot
afford pleasantries?

That is all it takes, really..you can train your
resting face to be more pleasant. I had to,
because people would always ask if I was
mad at them ;-)

It is a simple start, always have a list in your
mind of all the things you do well, even if is
only listening, a forgotten grace but surefire.

Give yourself credit for the positive stuff you
are capable of, might make you smile ;-)

You can claw your way out of the gutter
in less than 24 hours.

They are going to require a list ;-)

Yes..charm-free in every way..good luck.

What is wrong with you that need someone open-minded?

Welcome ;-)

In 7 years?
It suggests the scammers may be offended by the pits.
Switch pics, enjoin the forums.

Welcome ;-)

All too true.
So, practical advice..as YOU are the gung-ho one,
I would back off and see if that makes any
difference to her, it might lower her fear.

It might give her impetus to continue the
relationship.

But if you do not meet, your hopes are forever
tied to a dream...and dreams end, not always
in a good way.