You can't choose who you are attracted to, that I know for a fact.

But as for me, I am attracted to the male body, but not the mentality. I prefer the company of men, and women, but I don't really have a preference.

And love depends on the heart, it sounds to me like you need to find a new girl to look for an intimate encounter with. I have a couple lesbian friends, and the only reason they would have sex with a man is to get pregnant, and for the most part, they manage to get around it. The male body just doesn't appeal to them, it would be like asking a gay man to have sex with a woman, it's not going to happen. :/

People's minds work in many different ways. I, too, am attracted to the same 'gender' (I don't really believe in gender roles) Not only physically, but mentally. For quite some time I've noticed that I not only looked at guys, but girls, and thought how attractive they were.

I mean, if she's set on her preference, I'd def. move on. But friends can be wonderful, as well.

All's I got to say is ,

One look as a butt ugly , man hating bull dyke is all I need to be

glad I am Man !

Eww ...

except for doctors, gender is a state of mind, as are the attributes we assign to it,,,,

its possible to be ATTRACTED to either gender in reality, its not possible to be attracted to all the ATTRIBUTES we assign to those genders though,,

I think you should just accept that this girl is only going to be a friend to you. It shouldn't make a difference whether she is a Lesbian or not; just enjoy the friendship you have with her and be a supportive friend.