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Topic: What turns you off?...
j3ss1ka's photo
Wed 03/09/11 08:58 AM
I noticed that when I go out on a first date the usual little things turn me off about a guy. Like what they wear for the occasion, if they shaved, or if they are decent tippers.

What turns you off when your on a first date? And is it something you notice a lot? flowerforyou

soufiehere's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:23 AM
Over-scrutinizing the bill.
Like they have never paid one before.

Any kind of comb-over...shudder.
I will buy you a razor.

Showing off.
Just be kind to everybody.

Don't agree with everything I say.
Opine.

If you have to look at other girls..
be prepared to follow THEM home.

j3ss1ka's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:25 AM
If you have to look at other girls..
be prepared to follow THEM home.


:thumbsup: laugh

roadlesstrvld's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:29 AM
When they can't keep eye contact....makes them seem shady.

InvictusV's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:32 AM
You all are demanding.. damn

j3ss1ka's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:32 AM

You all are demanding.. damn


flowerforyou :wink: :tongue:

j3ss1ka's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:34 AM
When they forget your name...slaphead

bastet126's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:36 AM
i went on a date once with a guy who didn't use a knife to cut his food. i don't mean string beans, more like steak. he was hack sawing away at it with his fork to the point of working up a sweat, and i was like "wth??" :)- that just did it for me. oh well...next!!

roadlesstrvld's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:55 AM
When they start talking while eating and food comes flying out of their mouth and they keep talking like it never happened...are they completely unaware?

InvictusV's photo
Wed 03/09/11 10:06 AM
I suggest a thorough interrogation before going out in public with someone you don't really know..

It saves some of this disappointment and dissatisfaction I'm finding in these replies..




desertdove's photo
Wed 03/09/11 10:47 AM
When they talk or text on the phone. First date I want all your attention. Of course if there is an emergency you must talk

no photo
Wed 03/09/11 10:53 AM
If they text...nothing more annoying

oldsage's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:04 AM
Lack of manners & common sense.

j3ss1ka's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:05 AM
Baggy jeans...

FindMe1113's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:17 AM
.....Talking about their past relationships...Agggh!grumble

tjer1l's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:30 AM
poor hygienic habits

comptech1's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:32 AM


Date killer =

Animal hair all over car , clothing and house.

Bad teeth/breath .... Smoking .

Potty mouth .

Giant purse (women who carry a filing cabinet in their purse.)

Bad English (obvious signs of ignorance any laziness)

Dresses up for work and friends but looks like a Polish cleaning lady

while with you.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 03/09/11 12:19 PM
As long as she is slightly sane and puts out at the end of the night...I'm good to go. I'm easy to please.



JUST KIDDING LADIES!! Lol!!



Get something off the menu you are going to enjoy. Don't get some cheesy salad. Go ahead and eat normal. Don't sit there and think that I'm going to think you are a pig if you eat a burger. Or order the cheapest thing on the menu. Especially if I suggested the place where we are eating. I wouldn't pick a place I couldn't afford. And your damn right I'm paying.

msharmony's photo
Wed 03/09/11 12:22 PM

I noticed that when I go out on a first date the usual little things turn me off about a guy. Like what they wear for the occasion, if they shaved, or if they are decent tippers.

What turns you off when your on a first date? And is it something you notice a lot? flowerforyou


shallow conversation, talking about their money or their valuables
bad hygiene, unshaven, untrimmed
anti religious or anti family talk
distracting tattoos or piercings

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 03/09/11 12:23 PM


I noticed that when I go out on a first date the usual little things turn me off about a guy. Like what they wear for the occasion, if they shaved, or if they are decent tippers.

What turns you off when your on a first date? And is it something you notice a lot? flowerforyou


shallow conversation, talking about their money or their valuables
bad hygiene, unshaven, untrimmed
anti religious or anti family talk
distracting tattoos or piercings


Well....2 out of 4 aitn bad. LOL!!

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