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Topic: The "it" factor
TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 03/19/11 07:33 AM
When you meet someone for the first time it only takes a few seconds to know if you have any chemistry with them. Think back and remember the last time you felt those sparks of attraction and try to put a finger on what it was that did it for you. For me it was witty banter. I said something silly and she took the ball and threw it back.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 03/19/11 07:53 AM
When I know immedieatly that I am about to get laid.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 03/19/11 08:20 AM
When I know immedieatly that I am about to get laid. Right, but how do you know? What are the signs that tell you when you've made that kind of connection with someone?

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 03/19/11 08:25 AM
That's not a real familiar experience for me. I certainly know immediately that I am not about to get laid.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Sat 03/19/11 08:58 AM
i gotta go with your answer scoundrel, i was instantly attracted to the witty banter. kinda put us in a place of familiarity that just make us go........click!! everything from there was just icing on the cake!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/19/11 09:08 AM
When I know immedieatly that I am about to get laid. Right, but how do you know? What are the signs that tell you when you've made that kind of connection with someone? you feel it - feel something - like shortness of breath in person - it;s in the eyes and body language - online it's a little harder - but continued and consistent contact - not easily distracted away from you are good signs...

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 03/19/11 09:34 AM
When I wuz young, dumb and full of _ _ _, I got that attraction when I scented women in heat.(Pheremone)

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 03/19/11 09:48 AM
When I know immedieatly that I am about to get laid. Right, but how do you know? What are the signs that tell you when you've made that kind of connection with someone? How do butterflies make it from Mexico to Alaska without a map? They just know. I am not kidding...I know within 10 minutes if I am gonna get me some. I have never been wrong yet. It ain't always a good thing but, I am spot on accurate just going on instinct. Kinda like trying to describe Rock and Roll...pretty much impossible to describe but, you know when you are Rockin.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/19/11 10:13 AM
so sex is like a tuned down bass guitar?

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sat 03/19/11 10:27 AM
so sex is like a tuned down bass guitar? Right now sex for me is a bad joke, I just don't get it!

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 03/19/11 01:57 PM
How do butterflies make it from Mexico to Alaska without a map? They just know. I am not kidding...I know within 10 minutes if I am gonna get me some. I have never been wrong yet. It ain't always a good thing but, I am spot on accurate just going on instinct. Kinda like trying to describe Rock and Roll...pretty much impossible to describe but, you know when you are Rockin. I always know too. CLICK! And it's on. But, what I'm curious about is those few seconds leading up to that click.

hiddenmeaning Joined Mon 01/03/11 Posts: 282	Sat 03/19/11 02:00 PM
i will admit its if she laughs at the first 6 stupid things i do/say and responds in kind. hell the sex can wait till later i like stupid s**t

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 03/19/11 02:04 PM
When you meet someone for the first time it only takes a few seconds to know if you have any chemistry with them. Think back and remember the last time you felt those sparks of attraction and try to put a finger on what it was that did it for you. For me it was witty banter. I said something silly and she took the ball and threw it back. humility is an instant turn on(spark) if it is not to the point of shame and self pity that is confidence is also a turn on, if not to the point of cocky disregard of others quick wit/ability to communicate smoothly is another

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 03/19/11 02:54 PM
How do butterflies make it from Mexico to Alaska without a map? They just know. I am not kidding...I know within 10 minutes if I am gonna get me some. I have never been wrong yet. It ain't always a good thing but, I am spot on accurate just going on instinct. Kinda like trying to describe Rock and Roll...pretty much impossible to describe but, you know when you are Rockin. I always know too. CLICK! And it's on. But, what I'm curious about is those few seconds leading up to that click. Well....that is when you are standing in line at the bar for two whiskey doubles.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 03/19/11 02:59 PM
so sex is like a tuned down bass guitar? Maybe on your planet... For me..... Sex is a calypso drum beat with a Baptist black choir having an orgasm while Rage Against the Machine or Cake is THUMPING....

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/19/11 06:41 PM
so sex is like a tuned down bass guitar? Maybe on your planet... For me..... Sex is a calypso drum beat with a Baptist black choir having an orgasm while Rage Against the Machine or Cake is THUMPING.... ooooooooooo I do think we could find a tuned down bass guitar in there somewhere but I'd prolly leave the Baptists out of it

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/19/11 06:42 PM
so sex is like a tuned down bass guitar? Right now sex for me is a bad joke, I just don't get it!

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sat 03/19/11 07:00 PM
Damnit i cant remember, but i hope I find it someday.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 03/19/11 07:34 PM
I got vaccinated against "it" so I'm safe now.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 03/19/11 07:35 PM
I got vaccinated against "it" so I'm safe now. Right!