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Topic: Seems like judgement day on here
Oceansrun200 Joined Tue 03/29/11 Posts: 12	Fri 04/08/11 08:57 AM
Everytime you ask something there seems to be people who are quick to judge as if their lives were so perfect..if so then why are they on here..you know who you are....maybe some people just want to meet new people and hang out, go to the beach, see a sunset, just get out and get to know someone without being judged by the perfect ones...I don't know just seems like there are a few..andvthere have been wonderful people at the same time..it's great to know you..

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45342	Fri 04/08/11 09:11 AM
Methinks you get the same responses on the outside, from any given group of diverse people. Weedeaters, my good man :-) Weed them out, move on. Opinions will always vary. Judgers will always judge. We all wait for enlightenment :-)

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Fri 04/08/11 01:35 PM
No one has a perfect life Ocean & if I wasted time worrying about the judgements of others I would never truly be happy with myself. Shake it off & weed them out. Let them judge all the want, just know & love yourself! Don't let it get to you.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Fri 04/08/11 05:31 PM
yeah, its hit or miss, but you will learn to spot them. I posted a thread once with a question in mind and everyone jumped to conclusions and called me names and they were not even aware of the circumstance in which i was referring. It was funny how quick they were to judge...and it is also funny how when you talk about anything relationship wise, they assume you are speaking of someone on mingle, that is a big no NO! LOL, just an FYI. Advice while you are in the forums you will get to know who is who and who is just out to pick fights and debate with you, versus who is just here to have a good time and enjoy conversation and offer genuine advice. Good Luck, dont let them get to you. The only opinions that matter are the ones you listen to.

Oceansrun200 Joined Tue 03/29/11 Posts: 12	Fri 04/08/11 07:41 PM
It's great to see not everyone who you run across is the same...you guys make perfect sense..I appreciate it... I feel more welcome already....thanks

Haley1243 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 7716	Fri 04/08/11 07:46 PM
Welcome to Mingle Ocean!

vanillaskies Joined Fri 04/08/11 Posts: 3	Fri 04/08/11 08:47 PM
Usually the ones who are so quick to judge or the one who are the most insecure, or who have something to hide.....

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Fri 04/08/11 08:52 PM
or they are control freaks hahaha.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 04/08/11 09:07 PM
yeah, its hit or miss, but you will learn to spot them. I posted a thread once with a question in mind and everyone jumped to conclusions and called me names and they were not even aware of the circumstance in which i was referring. It was funny how quick they were to judge...and it is also funny how when you talk about anything relationship wise, they assume you are speaking of someone on mingle, that is a big no NO! LOL, just an FYI. Advice while you are in the forums you will get to know who is who and who is just out to pick fights and debate with you, versus who is just here to have a good time and enjoy conversation and offer genuine advice. Good Luck, dont let them get to you. The only opinions that matter are the ones you listen to. So true Simone....

Lmstwins Joined Mon 06/18/07 Posts: 705	Fri 04/08/11 10:48 PM
EXACTLY.. i agree with all the above ocean.. ive been gone from here for a while now but came back and different people same story... some just like to pick and argue to get a reaction.. dont let them get to you sweets! have fun.. more often then not you will find fun good people.. dont let the bad apples ruin it! ;)

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Sat 04/09/11 01:06 AM
Methinks you get the same responses on the outside, from any given group of diverse people. Weedeaters, my good man :-) Weed them out, move on. Opinions will always vary. Judgers will always judge. We all wait for enlightenment :-) It's just the same as in "real life". The difference being, people tend to voice their opinions or judgements more online since they can't be punched in the face.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 04/09/11 11:22 AM
Yeah Bro.... At first, it will seem that way and YES some people are Douche bags....(It's the internet where everyone is an expert...and invisible) Just hang out for a bit and you will find that this site has some truly cool people who you would be glad to be friends with.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sun 04/10/11 02:11 AM
Everytime you ask something there seems to be people who are quick to judge as if their lives were so perfect..if so then why are they on here..you know who you are....maybe some people just want to meet new people and hang out, go to the beach, see a sunset, just get out and get to know someone without being judged by the perfect ones...I don't know just seems like there are a few..andvthere have been wonderful people at the same time..it's great to know you.. Hmmmm.....I'm perfect..... ...for me! ....and judging others is something we are all guilty of....we all sit in judgement of our personal experiences, our ethics, our morals...our personal worlds.. Happens when being flawed hooooomans.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/10/11 04:58 PM
You are indeed a perfect Jess. Honestly, you seem like a Texas woman and I wouldn't accept you any other way. You are a BAD..bad ***** that I love, respect and admire. Probably explains why I pee a little when you talk to me.