Y is it so hard 2 find a good and honest person these days?
Seems like anytime u start 2 get attached 2 someone these days they end up hurting u.... just sayin, seems easier just 2 stay single

I agree

kinda sux..
i mean we all really want the same thig which is to be loved but just seems like its almost not worth the pain anymore

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and
find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against
it."

~ Rumi ~

people close to each other can only hurt each other because they care about one another. Learning how to avoid hurting each other is part of growth in any relationship and in our lives.

I would talk to the friend about it so they understand how their actions made u feel - not give up on the friendship

i have about given up on it... i know i have things i need to work on in order to get to where i need to be just finding what step to take first is the hardest and scariest

we have tried talkin and it seems we end up argueing more so then fixing things.. and whe it does seem as if things are fine it seems 2 all go to crap again.. having a hard time figuring out how exactly to communicate and change so we can resolve the reaccuring issue..

Ahh.. the joys of this forum....

>Y is it so hard 2 find a good and honest person these days?

Perhaps because everyone is so gun-shy they can't think stright.

Case in point... I wrote this nice lady, was friendly and genuine, and attempted to answer her profile question:

<Nice Lady>:Are you portraying the real you?

I had to ponder this question a bit....
Since to "Portray" is to make a Likeness-Of or a Representation-Of... My answer is No.

I don't think I can actually mimic myself very well... but maybe PeeWee Herman can...

How about you?


Her response was:

Hmmm.... you are asking if I am for real? Yes I am for real. I don't have time for games and such. I in turn am only looking for someone real, who is not a player, who is looking for long term, and who is perticular to whom they choose to be with :).
Little question to ponder as well... u do know your emisis has been arrested for lewd behavior yes? Causing the demise of his career and life? Poor man bad choices.....
I hope that is not what you are about??? Lol



So here's the "games and player" lines... Kinda makes me feel sad to think that I can't even get an email exchange going that doesn't immediately degrade into some man-hating exercise...

TTFN

Well the best advice I ever got about communication was this. "Never go to bed angry the day is gone and tomorrow hasn't happened yet." Its pretty much saying take each day with a fresh set of eyes. I'm not saying run away from problems but everyone should know when its best to let it go. As my father used to say. "Sometimes the greatest victory is the battle not fought." You'd be surprised what letting little stuff go can accomplish on the grander scheme of things. Moving forward is easiest with a lighter load.

Hey

It's the Internet! If we jumped into real life all of a sudden and saw how each other really was there would be a few surprises.

over the years it's gotten easier to sit behind the computer

it shows in the number of times I've been stood up

If Life wer easy we would all end up hanging ourselves or opting towards some form of suicide and do to the insanities of boardom we would all be consumned with the Devills idol hands.

i like what you're saying & I have to agree with ya on this

being on the computer actually helps open myself up more then face to face sooooo aint no shame in my game LOL

it's fun being catwoman, i can leap tall buildings and get nine lives.

Being online for me is a silly thing cause everytime I come around people say "Jesus Christ" and get in their cars.

maybe you inspire them to pray...

Nah internet meme joke.

Self reflection is the best means to self rehabillitation and I think youve got it down so far.

yes sir! this is correct.. i dont have it down just yet but deff workin on it