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Topic: frustration
justme659's photo
Sat 06/11/11 09:55 PM
Troublebug, thank you.

I will check those links out.

Totage's photo
Sat 06/11/11 09:59 PM

You know, or maybe not, that I am not completely chat room stupid. Yet, I am frustrated at this moment.

Some of you know that my fiance passed away 5 weeks ago. Knowing how wonderful the mingle community has been, I had this cooky idea that I could reach out and chat with others that have been in my situation. With respect to mingle members, there are not many here that want to chat about death. I do not blame them. I wish with all my might that I did not have to either. Yet the time has come where I could use some help.

So part of this silly notion of mine is that I could find a community on line, (similar to mingle, with real time chat) that I could join to talk with others about what I am going through, maybe even get some insight that could help. Well guess what? Either I am stupid or have lost the ability to find ONE on line, real time, chat group.

Google search has lead me in a wicked circle.

If anyone here knows of any such groups I would be thankfull. Or any suggested search methods that would be better than google, please, please inlighten me. Message me direct if you are uncomfortable posting here.

Thanks.
Robin



You may have better luck with IRC, Internet Relay Chat.

no photo
Sat 06/11/11 10:00 PM

Troublebug, thank you.

I will check those links out.

Your welcome sweetie

{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}

no photo
Sun 06/12/11 05:42 AM
Edited by MorningSong on Sun 06/12/11 05:43 AM
Justme......maybe start a thread in the Well Wishes

section,and just voice everthing in your heart into that

thread...let it be your own personal thread....


maybe we all could start our own personal threads like that...



but allow yourself time to heal , Justme.


I have gone thru a similar loss some years ago....and I sooooo

understand, Precious
flowerforyou:heart:flowerforyou

winterblue56's photo
Sun 06/12/11 08:31 AM
Edited by winterblue56 on Sun 06/12/11 08:32 AM
God's Blessings and Comforts. I'm very sorry for your loss. Take your time to hear yourself talk, feel yourself cry and don't ever think you "should" do anything because "someone said so" or "I read this aritcle". Your heart will heal in it's own time. I wish you comfort on Mingle, knowing there are so many beautiful people on here that are willing to take the time to listen to your pain, waipe your tears and maybe even help a smile back on your face. We are here for you.
Sherry

misty_57's photo
Sun 06/12/11 09:26 AM

God's Blessings and Comforts. I'm very sorry for your loss. Take your time to hear yourself talk, feel yourself cry and don't ever think you "should" do anything because "someone said so" or "I read this aritcle". Your heart will heal in it's own time. I wish you comfort on Mingle, knowing there are so many beautiful people on here that are willing to take the time to listen to your pain, waipe your tears and maybe even help a smile back on your face. We are here for you.
Sherry



Never hesitate to e-mail me justme. My loss was in March, so if you need to talk I'm an e-mail away. flowerforyou
Hugs

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Sun 06/12/11 09:29 AM


God's Blessings and Comforts. I'm very sorry for your loss. Take your time to hear yourself talk, feel yourself cry and don't ever think you "should" do anything because "someone said so" or "I read this aritcle". Your heart will heal in it's own time. I wish you comfort on Mingle, knowing there are so many beautiful people on here that are willing to take the time to listen to your pain, waipe your tears and maybe even help a smile back on your face. We are here for you.
Sherry



Never hesitate to e-mail me justme. My loss was in March, so if you need to talk I'm an e-mail away. flowerforyou
Hugs
:heart: Sorry to hear this also misty,,my Prayers for you as well..

misty_57's photo
Sun 06/12/11 09:34 AM



God's Blessings and Comforts. I'm very sorry for your loss. Take your time to hear yourself talk, feel yourself cry and don't ever think you "should" do anything because "someone said so" or "I read this aritcle". Your heart will heal in it's own time. I wish you comfort on Mingle, knowing there are so many beautiful people on here that are willing to take the time to listen to your pain, waipe your tears and maybe even help a smile back on your face. We are here for you.
Sherry



Never hesitate to e-mail me justme. My loss was in March, so if you need to talk I'm an e-mail away. flowerforyou
Hugs
:heart: Sorry to hear this also misty,,my Prayers for you as well..

Thank you flowerforyou

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Sun 06/12/11 09:47 AM




God's Blessings and Comforts. I'm very sorry for your loss. Take your time to hear yourself talk, feel yourself cry and don't ever think you "should" do anything because "someone said so" or "I read this aritcle". Your heart will heal in it's own time. I wish you comfort on Mingle, knowing there are so many beautiful people on here that are willing to take the time to listen to your pain, waipe your tears and maybe even help a smile back on your face. We are here for you.
Sherry



Never hesitate to e-mail me justme. My loss was in March, so if you need to talk I'm an e-mail away. flowerforyou
Hugs
:heart: Sorry to hear this also misty,,my Prayers for you as well..

Thank you flowerforyou
I hope you BOTH can be friends and talk with each other,,for so many who grieve together become such a powerful force of healing together,as well
Its a sharing that help more than any words could express,,May God keep you BOTH safe and well and in His loving Grace..:heart: :heart:

msharmony's photo
Sun 06/12/11 11:12 AM

You know, or maybe not, that I am not completely chat room stupid. Yet, I am frustrated at this moment.

Some of you know that my fiance passed away 5 weeks ago. Knowing how wonderful the mingle community has been, I had this cooky idea that I could reach out and chat with others that have been in my situation. With respect to mingle members, there are not many here that want to chat about death. I do not blame them. I wish with all my might that I did not have to either. Yet the time has come where I could use some help.

So part of this silly notion of mine is that I could find a community on line, (similar to mingle, with real time chat) that I could join to talk with others about what I am going through, maybe even get some insight that could help. Well guess what? Either I am stupid or have lost the ability to find ONE on line, real time, chat group.

Google search has lead me in a wicked circle.

If anyone here knows of any such groups I would be thankfull. Or any suggested search methods that would be better than google, please, please inlighten me. Message me direct if you are uncomfortable posting here.

Thanks.
Robin



I realize she was not quite yet your wife,,but I might try starting with

'online widow support group'


or something of that nature, I googled it and got loads of hits...

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