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Topic: am i ugly?? Answer truthfully.
lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 08:49 PM
i wore this dress to my friends wedding. I thought i looked pretty... But not ONE person asked me to dance. I sat at the reject table by myself. Now i just feel kinda down. Unwanted. Unloved. Unattractive.

vthepoet Joined Tue 12/21/10 Posts: 954	Sat 08/27/11 08:51 PM
looks cute on you. IMO lass.

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:05 PM
thank you. I felt pretty when i left... But as the night continued i sat by myself.

elifn52 Joined Fri 12/29/06 Posts: 166	Sat 08/27/11 09:07 PM
NO WORRIES, SAVE THAT DANCE FOR YOUR OWN WEDDING

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:15 PM
it's hard to imagine marriage when guys aren't interested

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sat 08/27/11 09:19 PM
You look pretty...going to someones wedding other then your's is always focused on the Bride and Groom and their Family...not the guests...the reception is for the guests....was up to you to enjoy yourself when they had the reception...In 2011...do not expect somone to take you by the hand

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Sat 08/27/11 09:20 PM
If I was 40 years younger I would be at your feet.

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:22 PM
If I was 40 years younger I would be at your feet. thats sweet

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Sat 08/27/11 09:25 PM
If i was there at the weddin, i wont hesitate to ask you for a Tango

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:26 PM
You look pretty...going to someones wedding other then your's is always focused on the Bride and Groom and their Family...not the guests...the reception is for the guests....was up to you to enjoy yourself when they had the reception...In 2011...do not expect somone to take you by the hand i wasn't expecting anything. I only got upset when there was a dance where the wedding party started dancing together. Then each person went to get someone and then they kept getting everyone until nobody was left sitting.. Except for me and one other girl. It hurt.

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:29 PM
If i was there at the weddin, i wont hesitate to ask you for a Tango lol thanks

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sat 08/27/11 09:29 PM
yes...you went to a wedding that did not have Gentlemen like Ash and Iilott...

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Sat 08/27/11 09:33 PM
yes...you went to a wedding that did not have Gentlemen like Ash and Iilott... Lol in a weddin, all the guys are gentlemen except one..

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:35 PM
yea

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Sat 08/27/11 09:35 PM
You look pretty...going to someones wedding other then your's is always focused on the Bride and Groom and their Family...not the guests...the reception is for the guests....was up to you to enjoy yourself when they had the reception...In 2011...do not expect somone to take you by the hand i wasn't expecting anything. I only got upset when there was a dance where the wedding party started dancing together. Then each person went to get someone and then they kept getting everyone until nobody was left sitting.. Except for me and one other girl. It hurt. there's nothin to get hurt. What if they didnt pick you up? You yourself know that you arent ugly. Must be some other reason for em. Being in a wedding is different than being in a bar.

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sat 08/27/11 09:36 PM
except one? ...who was not the Gentleman...vas petter sa guele!

lizziebee89 Joined Wed 03/30/11 Posts: 542	Sat 08/27/11 09:39 PM
i.ve ever been in a bar. Never tried to get picked up. I was upset that i got left out.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 08/27/11 09:40 PM
yeah, weddings arent usually socializing events, but usually most of the guest already know and mingle with each other. I wouldnt worry too much about it or take it too personally.

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sat 08/27/11 09:43 PM
Seriously Izzie...hzd nothing to do with you the way you looked...just have to go for it....things have changed...wait for the guy to make the move...you will wait along time!....today it has gone the other way around...it is us women who have to make the move....have to be lucky if you find guys like Ash or lilott...

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sat 08/27/11 09:43 PM
nobody was left sitting.. Except for me and one other girl. It hurt. Should have got up and danced with the other girl. Sorry i'm bein a bit naughty again. . You're still young. You have years ahead of you.