Topic: am i ugly?? Answer truthfully.
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Sun 08/28/11 11:14 AM


Lizzie,believe it or not, you are the most beautiful woman on earth I have seen.
Just as someone in this forum said, if I was younger I would have asked you to share your life with mine. What I feel is that most men are afraid of beauty because some of us do not want to be rejected.
You are really GORGEOUS!

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Sun 08/28/11 11:32 AM


Lizzie,believe it or not, you are the most beautiful woman on earth I have seen.
Just as someone in this forum said, if I was younger I would have asked you to share your life with mine. What I feel is that most men are afraid of beauty because some of us do not want to be rejected.
You are really GORGEOUS!

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Sun 08/28/11 12:22 PM



nobody was left sitting.. Except for me and one other girl. It hurt.



Should have got up and danced with the other girl. Sorry i'm bein a bit naughty again. laugh. You're still young. You have years ahead of you.


:thumbsup:

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Sun 08/28/11 12:52 PM
Oh, for crying out loud!

You must be the 99th Lady to ask this question, and quiet frankly it's getting on my *****

Go and lay an egg, then come back to me.

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Sun 08/28/11 03:38 PM

Oh, for crying out loud!

You must be the 99th Lady to ask this question, and quiet frankly it's getting on my *****

Go and lay an egg, then come back to me.
surprised Dayyyyyyyyyum. What happened to the REAL Mr.Biscuit? You are obviously an impostor!scared

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Tue 08/30/11 08:03 AM

Oh, for crying out loud!

You must be the 99th Lady to ask this question, and quiet frankly it's getting on my *****

Go and lay an egg, then come back to me.


QQ

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Tue 08/30/11 10:41 AM
thanks everyone. And i was over it an hour later. I was only upset because i knew everyone. I wasn't wanting to be picked up. I wanted my friends to include me. Eventually i got up and danced solo. Not a huge deal. Just a little upset that i was left out. I honestly don't care now. I just had to say it out loud. Doesn't anyone else do that?

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Tue 08/30/11 10:43 AM

thanks everyone. And i was over it an hour later. I was only upset because i knew everyone. I wasn't wanting to be picked up. I wanted my friends to include me. Eventually i got up and danced solo. Not a huge deal. Just a little upset that i was left out. I honestly don't care now. I just had to say it out loud. Doesn't anyone else do that?
you're right lizzie, none of us like to be left out..

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Tue 08/30/11 10:43 AM

thanks everyone. And i was over it an hour later. I was only upset because i knew everyone. I wasn't wanting to be picked up. I wanted my friends to include me. Eventually i got up and danced solo. Not a huge deal. Just a little upset that i was left out. I honestly don't care now. I just had to say it out loud. Doesn't anyone else do that?


I do that a lot laugh

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Tue 08/30/11 10:51 AM

thanks everyone. And i was over it an hour later. I was only upset because i knew everyone. I wasn't wanting to be picked up. I wanted my friends to include me. Eventually i got up and danced solo. Not a huge deal. Just a little upset that i was left out. I honestly don't care now. I just had to say it out loud. Doesn't anyone else do that?

plenty of people make mountains out of mole hills. some people even go as far as throwing a tantrum. some will try to rally others into sympathizing with them, but we all are just looking for comfort. we all have different ways to cope with difficult situations. some have been taught to soothe themselves, others were not

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Fri 09/23/11 03:12 PM
Try this---WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOUR WORST ENEMY.

(ITS THE SAME PERSON) YOURSELF!

i WENT THROUGH A BIT OF THIS EARLIER IN LIFE, VERY MISUNDERSTOOD,
TO ECCENTRIC, ARTIST , CRAZY??

I ASKED MYSELF, THEN WHO IS MY BEST FRIEND EVER? iT WAS AN EASY ANSWER, WE ALL HAVE TO LIVE WITH OUR BEST FRIEND OR OUR WORST ENEMY
--IT TAKES PRACTICE, ASK YOURSELF EVERYDAY AT LEAST ONCE.

MY ANSWER FOR ME WAS...ECCENTRICITY IS GOOD, IM GLAD NOT TO BE JUST ANOTHER SHEEP, I DONT GIVE A POOP WHAT PEOPLE THINK, SMART, CRAZY, NO, JUST LOOK AT THINGS FROM A DIFFERENT VIEW, I AM TOTALLY PROUD
TO BE DIFFERENT THAN ANYONE !!

AS OF TODAY I HAVE TONS OF FRIENDS AND BUSINESS ASSOCIATED FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE, COLOUR RACE, RELIGION, GOOD, BAD, ALL OF THEM, I ACCEPT THEM
FOR WHO THEY WANT TO BE OR ARE, AND THEY DO THE SAME 4 ME.

HOPE THIS HELPS


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Fri 09/23/11 04:31 PM

Try this---WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOUR WORST ENEMY.

(ITS THE SAME PERSON) YOURSELF!

i WENT THROUGH A BIT OF THIS EARLIER IN LIFE, VERY MISUNDERSTOOD,
TO ECCENTRIC, ARTIST , CRAZY??

I ASKED MYSELF, THEN WHO IS MY BEST FRIEND EVER? iT WAS AN EASY ANSWER, WE ALL HAVE TO LIVE WITH OUR BEST FRIEND OR OUR WORST ENEMY
--IT TAKES PRACTICE, ASK YOURSELF EVERYDAY AT LEAST ONCE.

MY ANSWER FOR ME WAS...ECCENTRICITY IS GOOD, IM GLAD NOT TO BE JUST ANOTHER SHEEP, I DONT GIVE A POOP WHAT PEOPLE THINK, SMART, CRAZY, NO, JUST LOOK AT THINGS FROM A DIFFERENT VIEW, I AM TOTALLY PROUD
TO BE DIFFERENT THAN ANYONE !!

AS OF TODAY I HAVE TONS OF FRIENDS AND BUSINESS ASSOCIATED FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE, COLOUR RACE, RELIGION, GOOD, BAD, ALL OF THEM, I ACCEPT THEM
FOR WHO THEY WANT TO BE OR ARE, AND THEY DO THE SAME 4 ME.

HOPE THIS HELPS


Yeah, what he said!:thumbsup: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 09/27/11 08:30 AM

i wore this dress to my friends wedding. I thought i looked pretty... But not ONE person asked me to dance. I sat at the reject table by myself. Now i just feel kinda down. Unwanted. Unloved. Unattractive.


Was it a heterosexual wedding? Did people there know your orientation? Were you hoping to be asked by a man, a woman or either?

Speaking as a heterosexual male, you're so hot in that dress it's intimidating.

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Mon 10/17/11 07:56 PM
Sorry you had a tough experience.

Weddings are nortorious for making people anxious.

They are also nortorious for being a traditional older crowd or at least where people tend to be aware that the parents, bosses, and church folks are around.

A tough crowd for a single Mom and or someone who has same sex attractions. Probably why so many people seem to avoid weddings all together. Maybe a few more years it won't be so or you will be better able to handle it. Going with an escort would help if you find yourself in this often repeated scene at your age.

Sounds like you did a pretty good job so be proud of yourself. A new Mom that you could even get yourself into a pretty dress, shoes, and there is an accomplishment so cut yourself some slack.

And the bride who was probably so distracted that she didn't know you were slighted. Or, and you can frame this how it makes you feel best, might have thought it was just too much to ask you to dance with some lame guest you didn't know.

If I have learned anything over the years that how we choose to frame something is half of the battle in seeing things.

You are a beautiful, intelligent, articulate, strong, young Mom, with and exquisite child,that will go far in this world.

I want you to read these posts and clip out all the compliments from the experienced nice people who already like you and wish you well. Post them someplace where you see them and read them every day.
Affirmations are important when you are taking on the old world.

Good Luck. You can pass it on when you have your own energy back.

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Mon 10/17/11 08:22 PM
??? I don't see a picture with a dress, is it in your profile?

If it's the blue one I don't know why, if it's the red one it might be cuz you look preggers. If you're not preggers anymore that helps.

Did you try squishing your boobies together and batting your eyelashes a lot?

Benji1010's photo
Thu 10/20/11 12:38 AM
As we say over here in England, you look cool and cute. Honestly! One day, the right person who recognises your lovely endearing qualities really will come along.

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Sun 10/23/11 02:14 PM
Here is the thing ladies... sometimes men do not feel like they can approach a woman due to her beauty or just because they are interested and fear rejection. Make yourself more approachable. Wear the smile and make eye contact..send the message. :smile: I believe you look nice in your dress.

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Sun 10/23/11 05:02 PM
if i wasn''t gay i would marry you tomorrow !!

next time go and ask a guy...

get in touch any time,

windows live / messenger i am bruce.challis@yahoo.co.uk

hugs,

bruce :0) xxx

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Mon 11/14/11 05:05 PM
cute smokin

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Mon 11/14/11 06:11 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 11/14/11 06:15 PM
Remember honey,

beauty, is what is on the inside,

but ugly, is clear to the bone.laugh laugh

And how in the heeeeeeeaaaaaaall can you be ugly.

You look gorgeous in red hair,
in blonde hair,
in brown hair,
in streaked hair
and in purple hair.

Its not the hair making you so hot, cause you keep changin it, and yet you still remain smoken hot,

its your beautiful face babe.

And I think your personality shows through your face.

I bet your super sweet too.

Lizzeebee...the total package!