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Topic: Why do women think that way?
Loveachday Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 12	Thu 12/01/11 05:51 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 12/01/11 06:08 AM
If they respond to you that way it is probably because that has been their experience in the past.

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Thu 12/01/11 06:17 AM
I could never understand a women! But i can understand tomboys

afriQueen22 Joined Tue 10/25/11 Posts: 527	Thu 12/01/11 06:38 AM
When I was younger, one of my male cousin's sat me down and told me that there is no such thing as a favour from a guy, if he does you a favour, he's usually going to want something in return at a later stage. Ever since then I've been wary of "nice" guys who want to help me out. That being said, not all guys are the same. It's just that sometimes it's hard to pick out the wolf amongst the sheep.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/01/11 06:43 AM
Not all women think this way. Just as not all men are helping out women in hopes of getting sex in return. Generalizing about the entire gender just doesn't work.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 12/01/11 06:51 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. well they can think it all they want but I am not paying them back with sex....maybe a meal or a return favor - or even money if they incurred expenses helping me or they are helping me in their professional capacity for a service I would have had to pay for somewhere else I have little cause to have men help me, actually around here they stand and watch me do things like load my bike on the bike rack (and put the rack on my car) carry heavy bags of groceries and equipment.....maybe I'll invite them to take a picture but it's OK - if I need someone's help and they are standing around, I will ask

amaria90 Joined Thu 11/03/11 Posts: 2806	Thu 12/01/11 06:57 AM
I hope you find the right one who will help you out sometimes just as you help her out sometimes.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 12/01/11 06:58 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. because it is the case more often than not..

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Thu 12/01/11 07:09 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. I have trouble understanding how other people think. I had seen a lot of embarrassed people. Its okay to get embarrassed. I wouldn't let it bother you. Happens to me all the time.

Alpana Joined Wed 07/06/11 Posts: 95	Thu 12/01/11 08:06 AM
No Offence. I think its the Vibe u get from the person. Majority of women, atleast the ones i know, think like that..... and yes off course, statistically men have a bad record at doing selfless favors.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45342	Thu 12/01/11 08:23 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. I don't know ANYone who thinks like that. How awful for you. Mostly.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 12/01/11 08:24 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. because it is the case more often than not.. That has been my experience as well.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Thu 12/01/11 08:30 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. well they can think it all they want but I am not paying them back with sex....maybe a meal or a return favor - or even money if they incurred expenses helping me or they are helping me in their professional capacity for a service I would have had to pay for somewhere else I have little cause to have men help me, actually around here they stand and watch me do things like load my bike on the bike rack (and put the rack on my car) carry heavy bags of groceries and equipment.....maybe I'll invite them to take a picture but it's OK - if I need someone's help and they are standing around, I will ask

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Thu 12/01/11 08:36 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. That is because most women are crazier than hell.........

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Thu 12/01/11 09:10 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. I don't know ANYone who thinks like that. How awful for you. Mostly. I have not had this happen to me. I suppose I know normal people who do not think this way. I feel bad for you.

skywisper Joined Mon 03/21/11 Posts: 1213	Thu 12/01/11 09:48 AM
There is a few women i helped and i with they would of payed me back with sex lol,hmmm instead i got payed back with nothing at all.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/01/11 09:53 AM
There is a few women i helped and i with they would of payed me back with sex lol,hmmm instead i got payed back with nothing at all. So you're mad that you help them, but you get nothing in return?

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Thu 12/01/11 09:58 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. Tell the woman or girl that we all have to give back. One way or another. Tell her that we each contribute to society and for the veneral good of all the way we are able to. Tell her that she is going to feel good about this the next morning, and you hope she won't disrespect you for it. Tell her giving is better than receiving.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Thu 12/01/11 10:02 AM Edited by wux on Thu 12/01/11 10:04 AM
I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me. because it is the case more often than not.. That has been my experience as well. This is the sort of way of thinking a guy with a lot of money likes to know about which girl on this site has it. I never set a trap in my life, coz I don't have any social skills. But I can see one, or the ones I can't fall into (coz I have the wrong shoe size or circumfence or something or other). :red: :pink flamingoes: :white picket fence: :nyeh: :neener, reener:.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Thu 12/01/11 10:05 AM
There is a few women i helped and i with they would of payed me back with sex lol,hmmm instead i got payed back with nothing at all. I know... "If it wasn't for nothing at all, then I would get paid nothing at all for the favours I grant."