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Watching beauty and the beast with my toddler
it occurs to me that 'beauty' signifies those physical things we are attracted to,,, so, perhaps physical preferences, although natural and expected, limit us when we make them into mandates we may miss out on what outwardly may not make the mark, but inwardly would be all we could wish for when getting to know people in real time, I try to discard those 'preferences' and see who is inside,,, you? |
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its been a long road to learning that, :)and your right! we are So focused on what someone looks like, that we could be turning from the one we've been waiting for. I hope ive learned that lesson, :)
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It is hard because before you know it, you’ve already reached the point where you don’t bother to look beyond the aesthetic beauty of someone and then you have to recondition yourself to look beneath the surface. It took me a while to do this but I got there.
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Edited by
SilentlyScreaming
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Fri 12/02/11 02:18 PM
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I try not to be so superficial... but honestly, what do you notice about someone when you first meet them? You dont know their inner-beauty... Its easier on places like this where you talk to them a long time before seeing them in person (tho the pictures do still help with the initial attraction)... Does my guy have to be a perfect 10? no, because i'm sure as hell not!... but i do have to be physically attracted to them...
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I try not to be so superficial... but honestly, what do you notice about someone when you first meet them? You dont know their inner-beauty... Its easier on places like this where you talk to them a long time before seeing them in person (tho the pictures do still help with the initial attraction)... Does my guy have to be a perfect 10? no, because i'm sure as hell not!... but i do have to be physically attracted to them... This is how I view it, especially with regards to dating. Friends I get to know, and the physical attraction isn't so important. |
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totally agree with all you beautiful ladies her :p
wat wud we do wit 'great lookers' if dey 'beast' on the inside hmm..... |
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Watching beauty and the beast with my toddler it occurs to me that 'beauty' signifies those physical things we are attracted to,,, so, perhaps physical preferences, although natural and expected, limit us when we make them into mandates we may miss out on what outwardly may not make the mark, but inwardly would be all we could wish for when getting to know people in real time, I try to discard those 'preferences' and see who is inside,,, you? that's a learnign curve for me but I love your words in the OP |
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I think looks has ruined it for many people and continues to haunt our society.
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This is a little off topic, but I want to mention it cause I imagine all of you have experienced it...you meet someone who ,in the looks department, is not all that and a bag of chips....you're not taken with their physical appearance.....But circumstances, like a job or school for instance, create an opportunity for you to get to know the person, really get to know them, and like magic they become beautiful!!..
I love when this happens, don't you? 
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This is a little off topic, but I want to mention it cause I imagine all of you have experienced it...you meet someone who ,in the looks department, is not all that and a bag of chips....you're not taken with their physical appearance.....But circumstances, like a job or school for instance, create an opportunity for you to get to know the person, really get to know them, and like magic they become beautiful!!.. I love when this happens, don't you? Yes, I do. And beautiful women are terrible cooks, too. And if they are slim, too, then they can't even boil a toast no matter how hard they try. And they are not all that they are crapped up to be in the bedroom, either. They are spoiled, they want everything, they don't give. I have to beg them to understand most times that it is I, ME, who is historically the spoiled one in the bedroom, and they have to change their trend. At this point all of them get up, gather their belongings (and some of mine) and leave. |
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This is a little off topic, but I want to mention it cause I imagine all of you have experienced it...you meet someone who ,in the looks department, is not all that and a bag of chips....you're not taken with their physical appearance.....But circumstances, like a job or school for instance, create an opportunity for you to get to know the person, really get to know them, and like magic they become beautiful!!.. I love when this happens, don't you? Yes, I do. And beautiful women are terrible cooks, too. And if they are slim, too, then they can't even boil a toast no matter how hard they try. And they are not all that they are crapped up to be in the bedroom, either. They are spoiled, they want everything, they don't give. I have to beg them to understand most times that it is I, ME, who is historically the spoiled one in the bedroom, and they have to change their trend. At this point all of them get up, gather their belongings (and some of mine) and leave.  I think not beautiful man! I am slim and I cook quite well thank you...But then you knew that was coming didn't you I may not be beautiful (like you) but I am OK And I don't want anything, nuttin honey, I just want to give and give and give Spoiled, yeah right!..I wish No man has ever had to "explain" to me that it is all about them, I understand this, I accept this In the bedroom and out, this goes without saying Wux You are not always right about everything you know...I have needs too Damn it Wux you never consider me, it is always all about you, I can't take it anymore ...I just can't Wux...I'm outta here....No, that is not your painting, you bought that for me Wux...I don't give a damn what you say, it's mine, Im taking it!...and the china, the expensive set we never use, that is mine too...Yes it is Wux!!!!...Oh yeah, the dog...I don't care how long you've had her Wux, it's me she loves, it's me she needs....
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This is a little off topic, but I want to mention it cause I imagine all of you have experienced it...you meet someone who ,in the looks department, is not all that and a bag of chips....you're not taken with their physical appearance.....But circumstances, like a job or school for instance, create an opportunity for you to get to know the person, really get to know them, and like magic they become beautiful!!.. I love when this happens, don't you? Yes, I do. And beautiful women are terrible cooks, too. And if they are slim, too, then they can't even boil a toast no matter how hard they try. And they are not all that they are crapped up to be in the bedroom, either. They are spoiled, they want everything, they don't give. I have to beg them to understand most times that it is I, ME, who is historically the spoiled one in the bedroom, and they have to change their trend. At this point all of them get up, gather their belongings (and some of mine) and leave. I think not beautiful man! I am slim and I cook quite well thank you...But then you knew that was coming didn't you I may not be beautiful (like you) but I am OK And I don't want anything, nuttin honey, I just want to give and give and give Spoiled, yeah right!..I wish No man has ever had to "explain" to me that it is all about them, I understand this, I accept this In the bedroom and out, this goes without saying Wux You are not always right about everything you know...I have needs too Damn it Wux you never consider me, it is always all about you, I can't take it anymore ...I just can't Wux...I'm outta here....No, that is not your painting, you bought that for me Wux...I don't give a damn what you say, it's mine, Im taking it!...and the china, the expensive set we never use, that is mine too...Yes it is Wux!!!!...Oh yeah, the dog...I don't care how long you've had her Wux, it's me she loves, it's me she needs.... oops maybe this is a bad time I'll come back later |
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Watching beauty and the beast with my toddler it occurs to me that 'beauty' signifies those physical things we are attracted to,,, so, perhaps physical preferences, although natural and expected, limit us when we make them into mandates we may miss out on what outwardly may not make the mark, but inwardly would be all we could wish for when getting to know people in real time, I try to discard those 'preferences' and see who is inside,,, you? yes as I believe I have mentioned before on an earlier thread - I really leave my preferences pretty open and avoid profiles/men with a lengthy list of them - especially those that are superficial - race, hair color etc |
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This is a little off topic, but I want to mention it cause I imagine all of you have experienced it...you meet someone who ,in the looks department, is not all that and a bag of chips....you're not taken with their physical appearance.....But circumstances, like a job or school for instance, create an opportunity for you to get to know the person, really get to know them, and like magic they become beautiful!!.. I love when this happens, don't you?  yes I do too
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This is a little off topic, but I want to mention it cause I imagine all of you have experienced it...you meet someone who ,in the looks department, is not all that and a bag of chips....you're not taken with their physical appearance.....But circumstances, like a job or school for instance, create an opportunity for you to get to know the person, really get to know them, and like magic they become beautiful!!.. I love when this happens, don't you? yes I do too Very special when this happens, isn't it Sweet.....  Happy Sunday!  |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NF5XU-k2Vk
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NF5XU-k2Vk  If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife!!!!! |
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ageing myself but it got a thumbs up for good dance beat on the dick clark show.
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so, perhaps physical preferences, although natural and expected, limit us when we make them into mandates we may miss out on what outwardly may not make the mark, but inwardly would be all we could wish for They definitely do. I have found guys that I thought were cute and after 10 minutes talking to them they suddenly become very unattractive. And, every man I have come to love, I came to find extremely attractive as my love for them grew. |
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so, perhaps physical preferences, although natural and expected, limit us when we make them into mandates we may miss out on what outwardly may not make the mark, but inwardly would be all we could wish for They definitely do. I have found guys that I thought were cute and after 10 minutes talking to them they suddenly become very unattractive. And, every man I have come to love, I came to find extremely attractive as my love for them grew. yup, this^ |
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