Topic: Is the a problem with the way look?
stangguy83's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:15 PM
I am trying to figure out if therd is something wrong with the way i look bc i cant even get a girl to talk me. On herd and in person. Please be honest

jenna317's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:23 PM
i don t think there s anything wrong with the way u look..im new to the forums and i thought i would let u know..but i only see the one pic u seem fine

stangguy83's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:26 PM
Thank you jenna. And may i say you are a very beautiful woman from the looks of your pic

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Sat 01/14/12 10:26 PM
Honestly...IMO, your profile reads like a typical male profile and basically says nothing that would grab my attention and unfortunately, nothing worth rating.

Also you only have one photo...although you're far from being unattractive, I think you need to add a few more.

I would read some of the comments under this section to give you a few ideas of what you could add.

Good luck!

jenna317's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:28 PM
thanks and she s right they ve been givin me tips here..u need more than one pic and more info

stangguy83's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:29 PM
Thank you. I will go back and work on my profile and get some more pics posted

jenna317's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:31 PM
i still have to work on mine too..lol

stangguy83's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:42 PM
I just finished adding more to my profile but i have get more pics of myself. I dont normally take pics of myself. Only once in a while when i need to lol

jenna317's photo
Sat 01/14/12 10:53 PM
i ll check it out tomorrow..u can tell what u think of mine too!

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Sat 01/14/12 11:15 PM
I’m sorry but IMO, it still needs a bit of work...I feel like I’m nit picking....sorry.

No two people are the same and as a result, read different things in what we type. The point is to make your profile something that gives a person information about you but not something that can be interpreted negatively or make you a target for scammers/people that think they can take advantage of you...

Nobody can predict the future so saying that you want to stay in your job for 30 yrs is fine but suggests you’re not open to relocating. If you’re not (open to relocating), then I think you need to say that you’re hoping to meet someone that lives Texas etc. Or not mention it at all.

Also saying that you’re willing to spend money on your woman may leave you open to people looking to take advantage of you. You may be generous to the woman in your life but let them find that out for themselves...I wouldn’t advertise it.

You also say nothing about the characteristics in the person that you’re hoping to meet...which may leave you open to filtering out those who do not meet your criteria.

Lastly saying that you’ve been divorced for 3 years and not dated for 3 years....I don’t think this needs to be in a profile but that is just my opinion.

I hope you are finding this helpful :smile:


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Mon 01/16/12 09:00 AM

Honestly...IMO, your profile reads like a typical male profile and basically says nothing that would grab my attention and unfortunately, nothing worth rating.

Also you only have one photo...although you're far from being unattractive, I think you need to add a few more.

I would read some of the comments under this section to give you a few ideas of what you could add.

Good luck!

Rate my profile pleease I like you comments

soufiehere's photo
Mon 01/16/12 09:06 AM
Can't complain about the profile.
Newbies sometimes think that is the
only reason they get no views.
In actuality, if you do some time in
the forums, it will get you some attention.
It also keeps you at the top of the Search
engines.

Time....patience :-)

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Wed 01/18/12 09:49 PM
Edited by md_30301 on Wed 01/18/12 09:54 PM
You can impress girls by being intelligent or extremely attractive, if possible both, then women will talk to you.

Your decent size (not skinny) so, lose fat by eating less carbs, working out and keep the muscle by eating protein. Get ripped that couldnt hurt. I'm not saying your not "strong" now just get cut and wear clothes that fit tighter, after you cut.

For example what your wearing, get your shirt/suit tailored to a Trim European fit.