Topic: any thoughts...?
potcperson's photo
Mon 02/06/12 10:29 AM
As I Christian I believe that God will bring my future husband into my life when He is ready...but I am starting to wonder if he's even out there. All of my friends (some who are younger than me) are all in relationships, engaged, or married...and I am just the single friend who tags along. I'm not sure if there is a direct question somewhere hidden in there, but should I just be content with being single and maybe looking closer at the men at my school or work?...or should I be actively searching for him on this site? Any ideas or thoughts would be appreciated.

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 02/06/12 11:22 AM

As I Christian I believe that God will bring my future husband into my life when He is ready...but I am starting to wonder if he's even out there. All of my friends (some who are younger than me) are all in relationships, engaged, or married...and I am just the single friend who tags along. I'm not sure if there is a direct question somewhere hidden in there, but should I just be content with being single and maybe looking closer at the men at my school or work?...or should I be actively searching for him on this site? Any ideas or thoughts would be appreciated.


God will only "Guide" the two people together. I personally do not believe in "soul mates" persay. I do not believe two exact people were made for one another. Because that would never work with free will. One may be born one side of the world and the other on the other side lol, or the two choose to make to separate areas of the world, ect ect. Just keep your pretty chin up, don't get discourage and keep searching for the man that is searching for the same thing as you. Be careful, men on the general note are pigs lol. But again don't get discourage keep the faith God will guide you to your "other half". Patience is a virtue.

potcperson's photo
Mon 02/06/12 12:56 PM
Thanks...sometimes it's hard to be patient though. I feel like the part of my life (the "single" part) is going by sooooooo slowly.

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 02/06/12 01:05 PM

Thanks...sometimes it's hard to be patient though. I feel like the part of my life (the "single" part) is going by sooooooo slowly.


Yes it does, every day feels like the same old same old. Same thing over and over gets repetitive and doesn't feel like you're get'n anywhere. I'm in the same boat :/

potcperson's photo
Mon 02/06/12 01:38 PM
Well...at least I'm not alone in feeling this way.

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 02/06/12 02:03 PM

Well...at least I'm not alone in feeling this way.


And you are a very beautiful young lady, to bad you don't live here :,(

potcperson's photo
Mon 02/06/12 02:13 PM
no you got it all wrong...too bad YOU don't live out here