Will do Cheer. Lol

I know what you mean Tammy. If I could Just have someone to do certain things with like going to a festival or antiquing or any thing that I want to do similar, I would get out more often. I do things like that with friends, but it's just not the same without a significant other.

Like I said, it's a different kind of lonely. I get out with friends occasionally but I think most people desire that special "one" to share those things with. Some people have been very lucky in finding that. Others of us, not so lucky. That's why I put as much about myself on my profile, put it all out on the table up front, so only those interested in who I really am will connect.

Then why are you on a dating site???

Alone Is a state of mind..................... Being lonely is another thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being lonely......is a state of mind.

Well OK that too!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hum I actually welcome being alone at times...Gives me time to reflect on what I need to do. I've never felt that being alone was painful...

Of course we all need our alone time occasionally. I'm talking about being single for a number of years and feeling the emotional desire to share your life with someone. It's an emotional pain, and everyone deals with lonliness in different ways.

I have been single for many years at a times.. Sure at times I welcome having another to share my life with. But have never felt that being alone as painful....

True people do deal with loneliness in different ways... those that that let it over ride their lives would be much better off if they learn to welcome the time alone to reflect..

Being with another can not make you happy if you're not happy within.....

Sure I will agree with you ...... we all need time to our selves....
but I have been alone ...... or maybe I should say by myself since 1999
and I find more times then not longing for the touch of a significant
other!!!!!!! I miss it a lot!!!!! But I just have to live with it.

That's what I'm talking about. And I have learned alot about myself being single for many years, and I have reflected and I AM happy with myself. I know another person cannot make me happy. I understand all that. That still doesn't alleviate the desire to have someone to share your life with.

very true!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you hit the nail on the head Tammy....

Hi ya Tazz!!!!!

Hello; Boone.

And don't get me wrong. I'm not talking about just "anyone" to share my life with. I'm talking about someone who shares common interests, personal beliefs, etc.

I am lonely. I am widowed. I miss companionship, being married, someone who is always there, to be for each other in and through all things in life, someone to count upon and they upon yourself. To be truly loved and experience is right, healthy and good closes the door of loneliness.

Sure some marriages do not work and for a marriage to work takes hard work and the result is worth the effort put in. I have seen a couple with sixty years of marriage which is beautiful to behold. There is no need for them to speak words for true love exists in the silence of their presence, revealed by the way they hold their hands and exchange looks.

Anyway I rather be married than alone, for living alone makes me lonely. The only way to truly fill the void of loneliness is to have a mate and true love in your life is where I stand on this.

There are worse things then being alone.
Like eing with someone and still being alone.

LOLLLLLLLLLLLL back dude you find that special lady yet? and does she have a sister? i starting to feel lonely too now dam ok i tell you what if i find 1 or if 1 finds me either way i ask her if she has a sister for you dude but keep your spirits up they watching you now in this room dude lolllll we maybe start a lonely group lolllllll like sort of a tag team like the bushwhackers wrestling team lolllllllllll just trying to make you laugh a bit dude hope your ok cheers but i know life can be unfair at times but hey i bet them bushwhackers have good dates maybe we should ask them if they got sisters lollllllll if you don't know the bushwhackers look them up on youtube you will have a laugh :) cheers