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Topic: Saving the texts
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Mon 03/05/12 10:15 PM
Hmmm this rant sure does make a great arguement for not texting someone until you know them well enough to know their MO. This MO stinks.

Can anyone say RED FLAGS? Whew!

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Tue 03/06/12 05:57 AM


I'm not really sure what's going on here, but I do have a question for everyone. Do you delete texts immediately?


Well, I keep the most memorable ones, the ones where we are falling for each other. I choose to deal one female at a time. I stopped texting and talking with many women because they are easy to meet, easy to get a phone number from, generally, many are okay on the first and second dates.

I shouldn't even be paying anymore for dates that I make valuable. I'd be happy hanging out and doing similar interest activities.

The thing is, I am trying not to qualify them, they are mostly underqualified although good looking. I'm trying to not text so much and trick them into revealing things that normally we'd find out over time. Who's got time? Not me.

I've been used and when I feel I'm being manipulated I cut the ties quick. They are shocked. Dude, you can have the one's I don't want because I chose the sweet ones to bed. I pull the trigger I just do it with finesse.

I just ended a friendship with a female who I've known for over a year. We dated, she lives in another city. She chose to be with a man who made promises and he was a fraud. After not talking to her for months, she is mad because I found a younger woman. When I think we can maybe be friends, she texts back on her terms. Meaning, I'm supposed to not like having a convo flow? I choose to not have women around in this case. She says she will call and doesn't. She is actually just talking with other guys to get out of her situation. She has issues. They all do. When someone says they like the warmth of hands or my smile, it means a lot to me. They don't mean that much but their words do.

Are any texts worth saving? I don't know how many people save meaningful texts. Most of it is jibberish. But we are made to feel like we're intruding on someone's schedule otherwise when we all have schedules.

Texting means establishing a conversation. Not idiot comments, trivia, jokes and garbage. It should mean we're going somewhere or who the hell needs it?


sounds like you are the manipulater to me - this is unbelievable

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Tue 03/06/12 05:58 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Tue 03/06/12 06:01 AM

Hmmm this rant sure does make a great arguement for not texting someone until you know them well enough to know their MO. This MO stinks.

Can anyone say RED FLAGS? Whew!


triple red flags and insane on top

also texting is the worst way I can think if to establish a conversation that has any meaning - if that has to explained then your beyond hope....laugh

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