HEY don't judge! I have my reasons!

If you don't delete texts you're going to end up on that hoarders
TV show.

Um..I dnt hv a clu WTF da Op is gttn at!!!!

Well, I keep the most memorable ones, the ones where we are falling for each other. I choose to deal one female at a time. I stopped texting and talking with many women because they are easy to meet, easy to get a phone number from, generally, many are okay on the first and second dates.

I shouldn't even be paying anymore for dates that I make valuable. I'd be happy hanging out and doing similar interest activities.

The thing is, I am trying not to qualify them, they are mostly underqualified although good looking. I'm trying to not text so much and trick them into revealing things that normally we'd find out over time. Who's got time? Not me.

I've been used and when I feel I'm being manipulated I cut the ties quick. They are shocked. Dude, you can have the one's I don't want because I chose the sweet ones to bed. I pull the trigger I just do it with finesse.

I just ended a friendship with a female who I've known for over a year. We dated, she lives in another city. She chose to be with a man who made promises and he was a fraud. After not talking to her for months, she is mad because I found a younger woman. When I think we can maybe be friends, she texts back on her terms. Meaning, I'm supposed to not like having a convo flow? I choose to not have women around in this case. She says she will call and doesn't. She is actually just talking with other guys to get out of her situation. She has issues. They all do. When someone says they like the warmth of hands or my smile, it means a lot to me. They don't mean that much but their words do.

Are any texts worth saving? I don't know how many people save meaningful texts. Most of it is jibberish. But we are made to feel like we're intruding on someone's schedule otherwise when we all have schedules.

Texting means establishing a conversation. Not idiot comments, trivia, jokes and garbage. It should mean we're going somewhere or who the hell needs it?

There are good texters and it seems it's all sufficient to just balance you out so you can live and work and be there for someone who texts or calls when they have bf issues.

There are good texters and it seems it's all sufficient to just balance you out so you can live and work and be there for someone who texts or calls when they have bf issues.

GotScreenstyle, you know that thread about 'what made you smile today'?...well you get my vote now!

I delete texts regularly. Texting has brought deaf people the abilty to communicate by cell phone. Horray!

My ex wife to blow me up with short texts, incomplete thoughts, silliness, I hated it. I hated texting. I'm the sort who prefers face to face talk. I like associations that have a mission, a point. Everything else has to equate to great sex, usually I'm in a monogamous relationship and it's all good. After we divorced I she understood what she was doing wrong with me. We dated after the D. I met a pretty witty gal from Idaho with a 4 year degree in biz economics so we were on par. She had a good job and wanted to get into real estate. I'm a retired producer, she loved how different I was. Our texts were awesome. I got into the habit of saving her texts because I felt she was trying to play me, thought she was smarter than myself. I was brutal with her but she kep coming back for more because she was learning. She was 24, I was 40 and having been in two marriages, she was learning **** from me. I could even remember exact text messages we had for months without having to retrieve them from my phone. We were connected and thoroughly addicted to each other.

She was a lil hooker. Being from the adult biz I know lots of models and hookers. I don't have a problem with them as long as they understand I won't contribute to their bf/pimp's welfare.

Ideally, I want a relationship where I don't have to text. I don;t like to talk much. I do all the communicating at home. It's about achieving goals and being accountable, enjoying time apart. The rest is dumb immature bs.

Yeah, but I don't live to make you smile. I'm a narcissist. I live to make me smile.

It seems like you value the texts more than the actual women?

Good luck getting laid here...I will bet my wallet that you just screwed yourself. (I may be wrong....but, I will take the bet)

You're right. I can work with the bad form the ladies offer if they make genuine offers to correct themselves. They only try so much to gain your confidence, they don't offer anything but what a man is supposed to believe they will contribute sexually. It isn't about sex, it's way too easy to get sex from women. They're easy, I have no business dating online.

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It's sad that I could read this...

Umm... I think you probably just turned off any women who have any sort of brains and understanding of what you stated here. I don't really understand why you are on a dating site such as this when you obviously have many women around you to choose from, get things out of. I also got out of your conversation with yourself that you are much happier with yourself than others (your self proposed narcissism) that you don't really need anyone else to have a conversation with at all.
Wow, is about all I have to say to this. I thought 6th graders were self absorbed.

What a bore.

As a lady, I can tell you that a man with your disrespect for women, condenscending attitude and excessive narcissism wouldn't even catch my eye. I confirmed that by looking at your profile picture.

You say you are a Producer and are in the "adult biz", I doubt that will impress the ladies I know here on Mingle.

I pity those with the belief that they are so much better than others, they usually wind up very alone in life.

I You

I you too, Shannon.
Another wonderful LADY!

lol true.

So why are you even on here then. I only s*** on people who s*** on me first, to be fair. If you see no use for it, then you know, do the right thing.