Topic: How do you prefer to settle disagreements?
motowndowntown's photo
Mon 04/02/12 04:13 PM
Duct tape.


It fixes everything.


And keeps her quiet.


Problem solved.

josie68's photo
Mon 04/02/12 04:13 PM



I arm wrestle her!!!!!!!
I drag it out for a lil while.....
Then.........
I let her win!!!!!!
:wink: bigsmile :wink:


Oh great, just let me think I have the power..


laugh :wink:

I have been beaten a few times!!!!
laugh


Even my kiddies flog me when I armwrestle tears

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Thu 04/05/12 12:00 AM
For me it's timing. If it has to be dealt with fast I'm straight up and very deliberate. If there is a chance to take my time with it than I try to get inside of their mind to see why they are thinking different from me. You never know when there is a lesson waiting. I think I get more upset when the lesson was not taught or learned, more than the disagreement itself. In my business you have to make very fast decisions and sideways disagreements are always a negative cause you have to move forward and disagreements tend to go in circles.

For this reason if I get the Vibe that the person on the other side of the disagreement is playing "I want to start something just to start something" or "delay of game, with games" I'm like ninja fast in ending it. I have too many decisions in my life to make that are important and trivial stuff is very low on my list, along with the people who are trivial.

RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 04/05/12 04:48 AM
Stay single. So far settling something rational in a dignified matter has been illusive for me. But then in most cases I have found that the other person usually has a good reason to see things the way they do. I have missed coming to the same conclusion in certain matters that a lot of people have. But when offered the variant in a lot of cases I can be persuaded. Honesty, open-mindedness and willingness have been good keys when there is time in such cases. If I have tried something and it didn't work chances I will be open for negotiations. Nothing wrong with learning something new I have found. If their is way is easier and less complicated I have been known to give in.

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Thu 04/05/12 04:55 AM

Stay single. So far settling something rational in a dignified matter has been illusive for me. But then in most cases I have found that the other person usually has a good reason to see things the way they do. I have missed coming to the same conclusion in certain matters that a lot of people have. But when offered the variant in a lot of cases I can be persuaded. Honesty, open-mindedness and willingness have been good keys when there is time in such cases. If I have tried something and it didn't work chances I will be open for negotiations. Nothing wrong with learning something new I have found. If their is way is easier and less complicated I have been known to give in.


What does staying single have to do with anything? You can have disagreements with anyone, not just someone you're dating.

Filmfreek's photo
Thu 04/05/12 05:38 AM
Usually try to hash it out right away. The more I try to analyze it, the more complicated it becomes.

And it usually ends up in a polite "agree to disagree".

Cheer_up's photo
Thu 04/05/12 09:12 AM

Are you the kind of person who wants to discuss it right then and try to work it out? Do you normally need time to cool off first? What usually works for you?
well depends on the other person too cause even if you can explain things proper some times can go in 1 ear out the other lolllll sometimes i let other person calm down then we both laugh later but i rather just say its stupid to argue life's just to short be happy lolll and forgive one another honestly i don't have many arguments i helped break up fights in past when i bounced years ago but people argue over so many little stupid things lollllll:)flowerforyou waving :thumbsup:

oldhippie1952's photo
Thu 04/05/12 01:34 PM
I don't have disagrrements because I look at the other's perspective.


Not everybody thinks alike, and very few have the exact same experience. So put yourself in their shoes.

TammyA's photo
Thu 04/05/12 01:39 PM
It depends on the context of the argument and how heated it gets. Sometimes I just have to walk away, don't try and talk to me, don't try and comfort me, just leave me alone, and then I'll come back and talk when I'm ready. Other times, I want to try and talk it out right then.

krupa's photo
Thu 04/05/12 05:17 PM
My usual methods are either asserting dominance or just walking the hell away and never looking back.

I am still coping with the alienness of actually considering compromise and fairness....cause my woman is worth not dominating or walking away from. We will have differing views occasionally....So, I am willing to do what needs be done to preserve the love I am lucky enough to have.

But, everyone else gets dominated or disregarded.

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Thu 04/05/12 05:20 PM
Black powder Pistols at.....30 paces!!!!
devil

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Thu 04/05/12 05:24 PM
I stomp my feet, pout,swear, cry and whatever else to win bigsmile

krupa's photo
Thu 04/05/12 05:28 PM

I stomp my feet, pout,swear, cry and whatever else to win bigsmile


You would hate me....

after 5 years old...it has zero effect on me.(though I do cry when I masturbate so, I gotta give you credit on that one)

:)

krupa's photo
Thu 04/05/12 05:33 PM

Black powder Pistols at.....30 paces!!!!
devil


You would hate me too bro.....

Keep your black powder and thirty paces....I am more of the snipe them at 800 yards kinda guy.


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Thu 04/05/12 05:34 PM


I stomp my feet, pout,swear, cry and whatever else to win bigsmile


You would hate me....

after 5 years old...it has zero effect on me.(though I do cry when I masturbate so, I gotta give you credit on that one)

:)

lol ....ok then, how about the silent treatment? Fits of anger? reverse physcology! I always win! frustrated

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Thu 04/05/12 05:35 PM


Black powder Pistols at.....30 paces!!!!
devil


You would hate me too bro.....

Keep your black powder and thirty paces....I am more of the snipe them at 800 yards kinda guy.





Holey Crap! OKAY ,YOU WIN!!!laugh

krupa's photo
Thu 04/05/12 05:49 PM

lol ....ok then, how about the silent treatment? Fits of anger? reverse physcology! I always win! frustrated


Uhhhhhh...BabyDawn....I invented the "silent treatment"...seriously....I hold the patent. "Fits of anger"?...apparently you have never witnessed a Polish schitt fit!

"Reverse psychology" only works on people dumberer than you.

I would say that you are losing this arguement except you got two aces that guys will never have....boobs and a pu$$I. That pretty much evens everything out. (and will give you iron fisted dominance over the rest of the brotherhood of the penis) ...they are weak.

hehehehhehehehe

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Thu 04/05/12 06:30 PM


Black powder Pistols at.....30 paces!!!!
devil


You would hate me too bro.....

Keep your black powder and thirty paces....I am more of the snipe them at 800 yards kinda guy.




OOOOOOoooooooo.......now thats a sweet piece of hardware!!!
drool drool

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Thu 04/05/12 07:10 PM


lol ....ok then, how about the silent treatment? Fits of anger? reverse physcology! I always win! frustrated


Uhhhhhh...BabyDawn....I invented the "silent treatment"...seriously....I hold the patent. "Fits of anger"?...apparently you have never witnessed a Polish schitt fit!

"Reverse psychology" only works on people dumberer than you.

I would say that you are losing this arguement except you got two aces that guys will never have....boobs and a pu$$I. That pretty much evens everything out. (and will give you iron fisted dominance over the rest of the brotherhood of the penis) ...they are weak.

hehehehhehehehe



No fair your pulling out the big gun! bwahahahaha!

RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 04/05/12 07:13 PM


Stay single. So far settling something rational in a dignified matter has been illusive for me. But then in most cases I have found that the other person usually has a good reason to see things the way they do. I have missed coming to the same conclusion in certain matters that a lot of people have. But when offered the variant in a lot of cases I can be persuaded. Honesty, open-mindedness and willingness have been good keys when there is time in such cases. If I have tried something and it didn't work chances I will be open for negotiations. Nothing wrong with learning something new I have found. If their is way is easier and less complicated I have been known to give in.


What does staying single have to do with anything? You can have disagreements with anyone, not just someone you're dating.


So true. But by staying single you can still have sanctuary from the outside world.:smile: