I am a 32 year old gay man. I am 5'8" tall 240lbs with a stocky build. I have blue eyes and a shaven head. I have always had problems with getting a date with a smaller guy. I'm attracted to the thin to average size guys and height is not an issue. It just seems like all the smaller guys post things like no fems and no fats. Is there anything I can do to attract more smaller guys?

it's the same as wanting to attract bigger guys, or lazy girls, or old women, or one legged episcopalian kanagroos. go to where the they hang out. the odds of you meeting someone are greater if there is a greater number of someones to meet. comprende? in the meantime, chillax, meet some nice people that are not your type. they may know someone that is, and may hook you up

Or get a van and a big roll of duct tape.

an old abandoned warehouse and a little paint is an excellent way to "break the ice"

Ohh, ohhh, ohhh, I want to meet a one legged episcopalian Kanagroo!!!!

How does someone tell the difference between a one legged, Episcopalian, Catholic, Lutheran, or Babtist Kanagroo?

OP, why hide your beautiful, naked scalp under that white hat?

Episcopalean and Babtist kangaroos don't dance. Catholic kangaroos don't use contraceptives, other than the rhythm method. If you are into Catholic one-legged Kangaroos, you absolutely must have a sense of rhythm.

I think just making it clear what you prefer and what you are then meeting as many people as possible so you have and opportunity to find what you like.

I would say trying not to be too ridgid about only meeting someone who fits a list of attributes will give you the opportunity to maybe meet someone who is that delightful exception to what you "think" you want by being what you REALLY want.

Also worrying about those hateful people who have the good fortune to avoid because they to refer to you, or anyone else, as a derogatory name is just moving you closer to your goal not farther away. They have deleted themself.

I am older and one thing I have seen is couples are rarely made up of two perfect visions of what the other had in mind.

So true, PacificStar! To quote the Rolling Stones: You don't always get what you want... you get what you need." Maybe focus more on the personality traits you find attractive, as opposed to the physical. That might open some doors for you.