I find it interesting how I'm being called a best friend, yet here lately I've been left in the dark. We were riding together for over a year to and from work. I was told I was a cheap ride. But lately I'm being told one thing why they aren't going to work anymore and finding out Friday that they left work for a while for another reason. Then I have other coworkers whom question if I'm telling the truth and wonder what friendship I have with this other person. I was always told I was their best friend as we seem to have allot in common.

Then out of the blue Friday morning they show up for work. Never walking up to me to say hi. I tried to contact them to see what they are doing for the weekend as it would be nice to hang out and talk but I'm left with no replies. I called to leave a message but I see they changed their phone number as I can no longer leave a voicemail. I get a message that the number I called is no longer in service.

I guess that is the way of saying "I no longer want to be friends with you any more". Just ignore me. I was a cheap ride to and from work. Now I'm no longer needed.

Or it had to do with me opening up about my personal self. The interests in considerably loose fitted comfortable clothing made from fabrics like woven rayon or rayon jersey knits for example. I like rayon, it has a nice feel to it. As well as other personal stuff. I don't know... better off being a ______ loaner for the rest of my life. Why do I need friends for?

Tis a simple flick of the switch to turn the light on....or off

Light on
Light off

It's not a good idea to play with light switches though. Sooner or later that light will just blow out.

As a woman, all the avoidance signs are obvious that somewhere in the friendship she wanted 'out'. If she has not told you, she is uncomfortable to do so. Respect her wishes and move on, no matter how much the loss of friendship hurts.