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Topic: So tired
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Thu 10/18/12 04:40 PM

You're not alone to feel that way. It's nice to have a companion, it's okay to be single, but nice to be taken too.


Gad, god only knows I'd been taken, quite a number of times, too.

wux's photo
Thu 10/18/12 04:42 PM

Studies show:

Number one complaint of married people- they are married

Number one complaint of single people- they are single


Mick Jagger was both single and married, and neither single nor married, whether he was married or single, at any given time of his life.

Go, Mick, go.

wux's photo
Thu 10/18/12 04:46 PM



I've been single for 7 months now, and can't stand it! I don't know why, but it's just terrible. It's not even me missing sex, or anything like that. I enjoy being in a relationship, but can't find anyone at all. Please tell me I'm not alone in feeling this way?
consider yourself blessed


Blessed how? lol


I think he meant "breasted".

In a nice double-breasted suit. Birthday suit.

Breasty, if you are indeed nineteen or 18 as others are saying it here, then you are an exceptionally well-matured young lady. You carrey your demeanor with a self-assured, non-arrogant, non-defensive attitude, which alone makes you as attractive as both of your breasts put together.

So yes, If I were 40 years younger, I would sure put a move on you.

BTW, I know you are an early maturer; but at 18 or 19, if you've been single only 7 months, how lange were you single before your relationship(s)? I first had a decent relationship at 28, but boys immature longer, so it's understandable.

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Thu 10/18/12 04:51 PM




I've been single for 7 months now, and can't stand it! I don't know why, but it's just terrible. It's not even me missing sex, or anything like that. I enjoy being in a relationship, but can't find anyone at all. Please tell me I'm not alone in feeling this way?
consider yourself blessed


Blessed how? lol


WTSomething! You are 19 years old- you need to live a bit first! Go get a life that will attract the right guy to you! If I was 19 again, the last thing on my mind would getting into a relationship.


C'mon... allow the young lady some individuality... she wants to be outside the box of run-of-the-mill lives... she wants to be free and different, and that I enthusiastically support. If it means for her to be in a relationship, so be it. I would not hold her own decisions and preference against her. She at least has a preference. At her age I did not even know which way is north on the campus. I kept going into Descriptive Algebra buildind during my Geography lectures. Woo, I was a lost youth.

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Thu 10/18/12 04:59 PM

I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. When I was 19, I was dating my high school sweetheart. I absolutely loved being in a relationship. But then about a year later, and after dealing with her Mom (who hated how happy I made her daughter. Yes. Her Mom did not like me cause I made her daughter happy while she was in a miserable relationship with a dude who treated her like crap) Anyways, when I broke it off, the next six months were hard. I missed being in the relationship. We got back together and all was well. So, I do know how it feels to love being in a relationship.

Now, at age 39, I can say I am content with being single. I don't have to be involved. Sure. I'd love to be in a healthy, stable relationship. But what I've learned is that I don't want to be in a relationship just to avoid not being with someone. My life is good how it is. If I do meet a girl who makes it better then awesome. I am all for it.



Please don't take that I am bragging... or do, coz that's what I am going to do.

At 24, I fell for a sweet as apple pie girl of seventeen, she was everything to me. Her mom started to make jealous noises, so I screwed her too.

The girl and I never got physical, it was eternal love. The mom and I were like rabbits in Aliceland.

Then I thought I was at the top of the world, and now I know it was the absolutely most immature thing I'd ever done.

The girl was sweet, adn I knew she was not for me, coz as soon as we committed, I found all and each woman in the world irresistible. Worse, I found out they were much more available to me at the time, for the time being.

If nothing, it learned me a lesson to never to settle down coz I'll make not only me, but the girl of my dreams and most loved everything in the world all sad and angry.

It is not a choice that I am promiscuous; it is a state of mind, which I can't shake, like smokers or crack addicts can't shake cigs or pipes.

I mean, I'd rather go solo for thirteen years, and very likely the rest of the time too, than be with one woman constantly.

BRrrr... YIKES!!! Gash, my wildest nightmare. GARPP, I wam djsua.

Marriage is somethign that happens to other people.

There IS some intelligent thougth put into this basically and overwhelmingly stupid design, called "the world".

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