OP, I think you can find a date soon enough or sooner than you'd wish, if from here on cover your breasts on the dates you go out to on.

In my long life I had three dates with girls who had magnificent breasts, and deep cleavages. In the restaurant they kept on getting visibly annoyed, and upon my inquiry, they said I was rude to stare at their breasts.

As god is my witness, I was not at all aware of doing that.

But the girs were annoyed.

So:

If you go on the date, and expect guys NOT to look deep into your soul (euphemism) then when they will, you are going to get annoyed, no chance for a relationship. If they don't look, then sooner or later their heads will explode right in the restaurant; resulting in the same thing, which is no chance of a relationship.

Goodies should be preserved to REWARD good behaviour with, not to entice or to LURE with. No guy ever needs luring. They are always ready, and prepared, like so many three billion boy scouts.

My mother always warned me about not to get into cars with women who try to lure me in with sweets. She was right, like all mothers always are.

Me: Wux, single, for thirteen years. Not even as much as a bloody kiss.

OP... you have breathed the air... you spent time on this site... you were among us for too long...

You are one of us now. You shall never be able to leave. If you leave, you'll be back in no time.

Brace yourself, and subscribe to the entire series of StarTrek, to while your time until being single is no longer a problem.

Beneath those breasts beats a heart as big as those breasts.

You are just making it tougher for the guy... he has to decide whether to go for the breasts or the heart.

I guess two breasts are better than one.

That means the last time you kissed a gal, the OP was 2. :-)

that's just about right,hikerjohn...7 months and whining already?...patience is a virtue? or is it not?

I'm just use to being in a relationship, I love being in a relationship. That's just how it goes. ;)

Why not get out and enjoy being with friends rather than feeling terrible about yourself for not dating?

Cause I have more fun dating..

I ve been sseparated for 11 yrs since then i never involved to other man coz i want if ever i found him he is the last man in my life.. but i think its really hard to find here on net...


violet

Ah, ok. Well, good luck to you.

It does help to make friends and enjoy life, though. You'll meet more people and seem much happier than you would if you were sitting at home just waiting for dates.

Gahh... ewwww. Little girls are really charming and true sweethearts, I love them to pieces and like to play with them, but sexually they turn me on about as much as a wet toad or a BBQd armadillo, sorry.

So... do you have some one lined up who was at least 40 years of age but younger than 84 at the time when I last kissed a woman?

Actually, Rosa, if you go out and date men, any man, and all men, and THEN you find your true love, and you never date anyone else after that but him, he will STILL be your last man in your your life.

I am only saying because it's true, and because you attach so much importance to that.

I know you're right. For some people it works, and some it doesn't. We all have our preferences :)

If you go with a couple of friends maybe you can meet someone you can go out on dates with.... It might work better than sitting at home and not meeting anyone new.... I understand that you enjoy dating, most people do but it takes two (at least) to make a date, so unless he is hiding in your basement, under your front porch, or in your closet, you will have more success going out.

Good luck!!

Actually patience is a virtue that becomes important to you after your Impatience burns you hard enough that you decide to develope it. Along with other virtues like self control and kindness.

You might want to build some up. Or just wait to you get burned. But hey, that's just how it goes. ;)

Patience Grasshopper ;)

;) haha, I'm trying.

Trying is always good! ;)

I don't have much of a choice. Rather try than not do anything about it at all. lol