Topic: help me with advise please
Bataki's photo
Sun 10/28/12 02:42 PM

for the last couple of weeks my gf have gone
through alot problems at work and home
respectivelty but i stood by and try to give all
my support even we are currently living
different countries till some days back that i
realiase she was unusual i felt her hiding
something from me and i insisted that she
should tell me bcos she does not reply to my
text or answer my calls which got me so
worried when i forced her to tell me what
problem was she said to babe am not
cheating on you my brother is under
intensive care now this not good time to
talk about our relationship just me alone
and that was it all her phones are off till
now will i still love back after shes ok.

AndyBgood's photo
Sun 10/28/12 02:49 PM
This sounds very strange. I would say this qualifies as a break up. I guess what you are asking is to hang on to a dream and HOPE she manages to call you back...

Well, this has been my past experience and this fits, And for as disgusting as this may sound, this saying carries a lot of weight in a situation like this... Crap in one hand and wish in the other and see which fills up first.

I would think if her brother was hurt your support would mean something to her.

And the phone numbers being shut off...

You may have been dumped...

I am not trying to be a mean person saying this. I am just trying to not candy coat the POSSIBLE truth.

You can wait and see though. I would not look down on you for it. That is a pretty big decision you have to make. You either wait it out or move on.

I think you would be better off moving on myself. Life is too short to waste being miserable.

Bataki's photo
Sun 10/28/12 02:56 PM
thanks buddy

jacktrades's photo
Sun 10/28/12 03:07 PM
I too have heard the sick relative story and it was fake . However bro make sure its really not true before you act because if she is really overcome with grief she will need you now more than ever.

Queene123's photo
Sun 10/28/12 03:19 PM
there was a guy on here sometime back
he met a lady on here

and im not sure what happen to him
but the lady started playing with his mind

where she suposely had a friend of hers
go on yahoo messenger and tell him
she had died

but actually she didnt

ladylove1221's photo
Sun 10/28/12 03:32 PM
Bataki sorry to tell you this but you are being played to see if you can be drawn in for the next sad story.
Have you met this person yet or just talked on the phone and text.
The next chapter is coming honey move on your young plenty of women out there looking for a honest man trust what I say don't waste your heart and your time if she is so distraught she would won't someone to talk to .You are being played cut her loose and move on you will be fine.I have met the same online looking for money all have a sad story??