Topic: Getting the conversation started
Endurorider88's photo
Mon 12/10/12 11:04 PM
Ok here goes, I'm a shy guy just like many others out there and it's always baffled me how to get someone to even talk to you. Maybe I'm a social retard (Which is very likely) but how do you get a conversation started with someone your interested in? Some tips or tricks are great.

JohnFDiss's photo
Tue 12/11/12 12:14 AM
I don't think there's any magic formula or style. Just walk up to whoever it is, say hello and then just whatever is on your mind. Obviously without going into big long speeches. If you're changing your character or behaviour to try and get people to talk to you then, to me, you're starting off on the wrong foot by trying to be someone you're not. Just remember, you may be a shy person but then so might they. You may be extremely nervous but then so might they. The biggest thing that people have to deal with is the feeling of being rejected. It's not necessarily the case that they hate you or think you're repulsive, it can just be that you and whoever don't hit it off. Relax, present yourself well, be yourself, be friendly and just chat. If you have to do any more than that then you need to ask yourself if they are the right person for you.

Kaleijoscope's photo
Tue 12/11/12 04:07 AM
Just say hello,.smile and talk about things in general,.i usually starts conversations and sometimes a "hi" is all that is needed to get it going..goodluck and welcome!