Topic: Any tips/criticism?
newtothis92's photo
Fri 12/28/12 04:33 PM
Just anything to spruce it up a bit, and is it a bit too forward?

Urg04es's photo
Fri 12/28/12 05:44 PM
Props to you for all you have survived. You are easy on the eyes, seem very mature for your age, and I only wish I was 20 years younger. Ha! I wish you luck-although I think you are going to do just fine, :)flowerforyou

Loy822's photo
Fri 12/28/12 05:57 PM
Have to agree. I think most women are attracted to a truly honest approach and you are definitely easy on the eyes - unfortunately, I'd need considerably more than 20 years younger LOL

newtothis92's photo
Fri 12/28/12 06:01 PM
Ah thank you very much as long as it doesn't look too dark. Haha I'm flattered! I'm sure you ladies will have no trouble finding someone :DESIGNATION

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 12/28/12 06:40 PM
Well I read your profile and it comes across honest. I don't know I would put certain information out there but you have my support in trying to put your life together after a rough start for a young person.

I think I would ask a friend to help you a bit with the organization and technical things so that it looks age approriate but it certainly better than some of the the offerings of your peers.

I am a bit behind the fashion curve for 20 somethings but in your case your skull cap may be actually make you look more disabled or disfigured than you are. I can very well remember post surgery appearances making me self concious so do what you can live with. Scars will be a lot more noticable to you than others.

The other poster's are correct that you are blessed with better than average looks. Defintely have other physical factors that are in your favore. Hopefully you will not smoke , most will assume you do if you don't answer, as that will defintely up your odds.

I feel most will think it uncool to say but I would, as a TBI peer, encourage you to keep in mind that youth, good looks, muscles is sometimes not always a blessing when you want to have a relationship and someone is just useing you as a "HOT Cookie" or looking to access your benifits. Particularly dangerous when your stated goal is intimate encounter which pretty much says you are up to be any one's boy toy and then get dumped. While the first few "sympathy boinks" might seem like fun it is not funny if it results in bad news. Sad as it is that people might believe you have a settlement or sizeable social insecurity benifits makes you the perfect sperm donor for someone wanting a social security check for their next kid. Cruel for sure but happens in the Community of the Disabled and if you don't believe me talk to some of the men that you can find on the disabled board at DateHookUp.com.

There are other great peer resources and if you ever decide to get a chance to come to the USA I hope you will contact various resources to have a blast with accepting and supportive peers. MainStream magazine is great and they stay on top of some of the best activites to participate in.


teebee79's photo
Sat 12/29/12 11:25 AM
You are already a good looking guy.... being a survivor makes you hotter! Good luck to you babe!