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I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust!
How to trust again? |
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Not everyone is worthy of trust.
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Hello n welcome
  . Its hard to trust someone that hurts you..Good luck. |
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What if you simply enjoyed the time you spent with your partner and didn't worry about what they do when they aren't around? Then there would be no need for trust. You'd have your own life and be responsible for your own happiness and well being. Your partner would do the same. Even if he is seeing other women it wouldn't have anything to do with you and what the two of you have together.
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If you always compare your present to your past, you will never have a future. Don't treat a man/woman like they are your ex or they will be your ex sooner than you think.
Trust has as much to do with you letting go the pain of past issues/people, as with the one you are with showing that he can be trusted. Patience, and wisdom will let you know in due time. |
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You should not trust that person again.
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What if you simply enjoyed the time you spent with your partner and didn't worry about what they do when they aren't around? Then there would be no need for trust. You'd have your own life and be responsible for your own happiness and well being. Your partner would do the same. Even if he is seeing other women it wouldn't have anything to do with you and what the two of you have together. Wrong; you would still have to trust them to be having safe sex with these people. |
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Wrong; you would still have to trust them to be having safe sex with these people. If YOU practice safe sex all the time, what they do doesn't matter. |
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What if you simply enjoyed the time you spent with your partner and didn't worry about what they do when they aren't around? Then there would be no need for trust. You'd have your own life and be responsible for your own happiness and well being. Your partner would do the same. Even if he is seeing other women it wouldn't have anything to do with you and what the two of you have together. Kind of like an open relationship? Waste of time, if we're being honest here. If you cannot trust those you care about it is time to move on and find people you can trust, anything else is just you deceiving yourself. |
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Don,t sell yourself short. By being a push over and always taking him back you are letting him have his cake and eat it too.
Dump the jerk and move on.Its not working for you and never will. |
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Kind of like an open relationship? Waste of time, if we're being honest here. If you cannot trust those you care about it is time to move on and find people you can trust, anything else is just you deceiving yourself. My point is, how does it effect you if your partner is seeing someone else? How does that change what the two of you have together? If you never ask, they'll never lie and the trust is never broken. |
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I don't think so I can just be blind. I love him truly.. And I want relationship that has a reason not just like playing..
The effect? Its hurting me! Coz I love him purely and faithfully. And I believe if u love someone u wouldn't find someone. So for me his words that he love me is just a word! |
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That's exactly what I'm thinking now..
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Yeah u r right! Specially I've given him a chance several times!
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Edited by
IOLA
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Tue 01/08/13 11:08 AM
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Hi! I tried to trust him again the time that I accept and forgive him. Obviously I didn't think the past always.. Its just I forgive then i caught him again.. And the explanation, he is just finishing it! What a !!! Its too much!!!
This reply is for TOxicpoizon :) Sorry I just joined here . I didn't know how to reply to the particular person.. :( |
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Hello??? U r talking so deep here..
I'm not talking about the SEX.. I am talking about the LOVE nd TRUST including the respect... Anyhow, without the trust difficult to give the Love and the SEX..ok? |
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Yeah u r right.. I'm trying to move on..
But the question is..,? HOw to trust Again? Is there any man in this world that u can trust to? |
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Kind of like an open relationship? Waste of time, if we're being honest here. If you cannot trust those you care about it is time to move on and find people you can trust, anything else is just you deceiving yourself. My point is, how does it effect you if your partner is seeing someone else? How does that change what the two of you have together? If you never ask, they'll never lie and the trust is never broken. I don't think so I can just be blind. I love him truly.. And I want relationship that has a reason not just like playing.. The effect? Its hurting me! Coz I love him purely and faithfully. And I believe if u love someone u wouldn't find someone. So for me his words that he love me is just a word! |
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Kind of like an open relationship? Waste of time, if we're being honest here. If you cannot trust those you care about it is time to move on and find people you can trust, anything else is just you deceiving yourself. My point is, how does it effect you if your partner is seeing someone else? How does that change what the two of you have together? If you never ask, they'll never lie and the trust is never broken. I don't think so I can just be blind. I love him truly.. And I want relationship that has a reason not just like playing.. The effect? Its hurting me! Coz I love him purely and faithfully. And I believe if u love someone u wouldn't find someone. So for me his words that he love me is just a word! |
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Wrong; you would still have to trust them to be having safe sex with these people. If YOU practice safe sex all the time, what they do doesn't matter. Hello??? U r talking so deep here.. I'm not talking about the SEX.. I am talking about the LOVE nd TRUST including the respect... Anyhow, without the trust difficult to give the Love and the SEX..ok? |
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