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Topic: How do you fight?
RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 03/18/13 01:45 AM
I am hooked on phonics and would rather fight than switch.laugh

notsoincognito's photo
Mon 03/18/13 02:04 AM
My man and i talk things out, it's the best way to deal with any concerns and or issue's he and i may have (agree to disagree). However when we butt heads, and that has happened on more then one occassion...we take a little time out. Doing this gives both of us a chance to see the others point of view...and much needed "cooling down" time

Every relationship has it's up's and down's, high's and low's...it's how we (as a couple) deal with them. Make or break...i prefer make

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Mon 03/18/13 03:26 AM

I am hooked on phonics and would rather fight than switch.laugh


okay, you pulled off a clever one... got to give you that... slaphead :laughing:

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Mon 03/18/13 03:37 AM

My man and i talk things out, it's the best way to deal with any concerns and or issue's he and i may have (agree to disagree). However when we butt heads, and that has happened on more then one occassion...we take a little time out. Doing this gives both of us a chance to see the others point of view...and much needed "cooling down" time

Every relationship has it's up's and down's, high's and low's...it's how we (as a couple) deal with them. Make or break...i prefer make


hi, notsoincognito, it's nice to meet you... the making or breaking part of life takes up so much of our energy, isn't it cool when it's smooth sailing more often than not? flowerforyou

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 03/18/13 03:41 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffo3_fO_RA8

The Rock - "It Doesn't Matter"

At-least I will let someone get a word in edge wide.laugh

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Mon 03/18/13 03:59 AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffo3_fO_RA8

The Rock - "It Doesn't Matter"

At-least I will let someone get a word in edge wide.laugh


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffo3_fO_RA8

The Rock is sooo HOT!!! With a really rockin bod... looks like he's been hittin the roids a little bit hard though... but oh, he's so yummy.. little rude too, huh??? laugh thanks for sharing this funny, funny... bigsmile

Dreamer1982's photo
Mon 03/18/13 04:00 AM
i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.

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Mon 03/18/13 04:38 AM

i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...

Dreamer1982's photo
Mon 03/18/13 05:01 AM


i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...


EXACTLY! I watch Investigation Discovery, pretty much, if the TV is even on, but saw portions of it here and there in my last relationship, always stupid.

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Mon 03/18/13 05:10 AM



i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...


EXACTLY! I watch Investigation Discovery, pretty much, if the TV is even on, but saw portions of it here and there in my last relationship, always stupid.


I find more entertainment within my own reality, which is nothing like others reality that is only exaggerated for the ratings and cash influx... don't get me wrong, if a network wanted to pay me to put my life in the public eye, I wouldn't have to think to long about the answer if the $$$ is right... laugh nothing wrong with making some easy money that doesn't involve manual labor... bigsmile

Dreamer1982's photo
Mon 03/18/13 05:21 AM




i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...


EXACTLY! I watch Investigation Discovery, pretty much, if the TV is even on, but saw portions of it here and there in my last relationship, always stupid.


I find more entertainment within my own reality, which is nothing like others reality that is only exaggerated for the ratings and cash influx... don't get me wrong, if a network wanted to pay me to put my life in the public eye, I wouldn't have to think to long about the answer if the $$$ is right... laugh nothing wrong with making some easy money that doesn't involve manual labor... bigsmile



tell me about it, i work in a factory, 50-60 hrs a week in detroit area....


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Mon 03/18/13 06:41 AM





i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...


EXACTLY! I watch Investigation Discovery, pretty much, if the TV is even on, but saw portions of it here and there in my last relationship, always stupid.


I find more entertainment within my own reality, which is nothing like others reality that is only exaggerated for the ratings and cash influx... don't get me wrong, if a network wanted to pay me to put my life in the public eye, I wouldn't have to think to long about the answer if the $$$ is right... laugh nothing wrong with making some easy money that doesn't involve manual labor... bigsmile



tell me about it, i work in a factory, 50-60 hrs a week in detroit area....




Wow! That doesn't leave much time for outside activities, like fun, but at least you're not strapped for cash in this backwards economy we're all dealing with these days...

Dreamer1982's photo
Wed 03/20/13 02:16 AM
Edited by Dreamer1982 on Wed 03/20/13 02:17 AM






i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...


EXACTLY! I watch Investigation Discovery, pretty much, if the TV is even on, but saw portions of it here and there in my last relationship, always stupid.


I find more entertainment within my own reality, which is nothing like others reality that is only exaggerated for the ratings and cash influx... don't get me wrong, if a network wanted to pay me to put my life in the public eye, I wouldn't have to think to long about the answer if the $$$ is right... laugh nothing wrong with making some easy money that doesn't involve manual labor... bigsmile



tell me about it, i work in a factory, 50-60 hrs a week in detroit area....




Wow! That doesn't leave much time for outside activities, like fun, but at least you're not strapped for cash in this backwards economy we're all dealing with these days...

no worry, rent, bills, and my 8 cyl. truck with 232,432 miles on it, make sure they don't leave a lot of money left, lol, perfect for the lack of time I have to spend it anyway, lol

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Wed 03/20/13 02:33 AM







i don't say mean things, or call, names. I know to do so would be an act of hostility, adding fuel to the fire. I talk. I HATTTTTE yelling, and being yelled at. yelling is a useless effort at demanding control.

If there is not a desire to TALK about differences and disagreements, I can't deal with that.

I can't stand a person who is oblivious to any sense of discretion.
No one else needs to here us screaming and yelling. I find it trashy to hear others.
It is vindictive, in my opinion to blabber to others what needs to be kept between the 2 of us. everything is not everyones business. I dont believe in the "Jersey Shore" make believe drama in my life.


Good for you Dreamer, I like your standards.. I'm a discreet freak.. keeping all discontent between only the parties involved... but, on the rare occasion that unusual circumstances doesn't make complete privacy possible, then I do my best with what I have to work with to get the issues resolved as quietly and peacefully as possible... I've never bothered to watch the shows you talk about, as just their up coming preview commercials were enough to turn me off...


EXACTLY! I watch Investigation Discovery, pretty much, if the TV is even on, but saw portions of it here and there in my last relationship, always stupid.


I find more entertainment within my own reality, which is nothing like others reality that is only exaggerated for the ratings and cash influx... don't get me wrong, if a network wanted to pay me to put my life in the public eye, I wouldn't have to think to long about the answer if the $$$ is right... laugh nothing wrong with making some easy money that doesn't involve manual labor... bigsmile



tell me about it, i work in a factory, 50-60 hrs a week in detroit area....




Wow! That doesn't leave much time for outside activities, like fun, but at least you're not strapped for cash in this backwards economy we're all dealing with these days...

no worry, rent, bills, and my 8 cyl. truck with 232,432 miles on it, make sure they don't leave a lot of money left, lol, perfect for the lack of time I have to spend it anyway, lol


bless your heart... I know how to make a dollar stretch too... and stretch the jelly when the peanut butter is getting low... laugh

seriously... just with food and transportation costs alone it's hard to have anything left over for entertainment, if we're not working 12/7 that is... then it's just a pleasure getting enough sleep to keep functioning half way sanely... I feel for you... am there, and doing that... but I'm a happy camper too... so, the added stress doesn't give me the blues... don't work too hard... bigsmile

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