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Topic: good guy finishes last
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Mon 05/06/13 07:38 PM


I'm john. I truly am a pretty good person, good job, pretty good looking, kind hearted, nice personality and can't meet a girl. I am shy though and get a little nervous but what should I do?


Grow some nuts.

Peanuts, cashews, pecans... chicks dig gardens and they are easy to set up in your backyard.

And all jokes aside, if you really feel all those things about yourself, just be confident in it and step out there and start talking. Shyness is not a crime, but you can't very well meet the love of your life if she can't find you.




well stated again, Kart... as usual.

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Mon 05/06/13 08:35 PM


You wanna get the girl? Any girl? Ya gotta go out of your comfort zone and show her that you are a quality catch. Since you are shy then the internet is a great tool for ya. Use it to your advantage and show these ladies what ya got.


This guy knows it all!! Enough said.


CHELSEA!! Is that really you!!!!!! ??

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Mon 05/06/13 09:00 PM

Genuine nice guys don't finish last. Whiny, self proclaimed nice guys finish last. There is a big difference.


Figured someone would say it better than I would.

I mean, honestly...Are you attracted to women that whine a lot? It's pretty much the same thing, man.

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Thu 05/09/13 06:03 PM
Thanks man...that makes sense

johnnymac38's photo
Thu 05/09/13 06:14 PM
Hey man...that makes a lot of sense!!

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Thu 05/09/13 08:20 PM

I'm john. I truly am a pretty good person, good job, pretty good looking, kind hearted, nice personality and can't meet a girl. I am shy though and get a little nervous but what should I do?



Try to relax and just be yourself. Feel comfortable. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself.

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Thu 05/09/13 08:25 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Thu 05/09/13 08:26 PM
you honestly CAN'T meet a girl? Start with the ones you already have met in some fashion. Donlt worry about the rest, and treat them like friends, like you want to make a friend...

we all know you want more, but more is more likely to happen if we are friends first

hey yanno sounds a little callous but it's basically true

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Thu 05/09/13 10:09 PM
Yeah I wouldn't listen to their hogwash.



Listen to this!

There are 88 single men for every 100 single women.



Now think about all the lovely ladies out there lining up to meet these
scarce men. Done thinking already? Great, because there aren't any lining up. You have to hunt them down like a free quarter on the floor. The quarter doesn't move and it's utterly useless until you snag it and give it a spend.

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Thu 05/09/13 10:51 PM
If I where you I wouldn't change a thing, If your a good guy a nice woman will eventually notice you for who you are but if your to shy to ask her out that would be something to work on. Stay true to yourself nice guys don't finish last, nice guys get nice girls. Good luck and have fun.

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Fri 05/10/13 01:17 AM
It's all very well saying that you're a nice guy, or a good guy, but the proof is where exactly? It's like someone saying they're a good singer, but then you hear them sing, and they're really not. Evidence over words ;)

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Fri 05/10/13 01:21 AM


I truly am a pretty good person, good job, pretty good looking, kind hearted, nice personality


We need to see it. Just saying it earns you no points. Just saying :) Show not tell, yeah?







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