"Get a life" is a harsh thing to say. But most people here would say they are looking for someone with whom they can share their life, and it's possible many of them have no life to share, and are waiting until they find someone. Speaking personally, I'm not waiting for anything.

TawtStrat - Loved your "join the club" post.

If you are gonna be negative...let's put this thing into context for you...

YOU signed on here...No one put a gun to your head.

YOU...have posted ONCE.....do you seriously expect guys to throw themselves at you after one post about how no one is throwing themselves at you?

Do you walk into a store or a club or a church and just expect every guy to know who you are and want you?

....get real...

Join in a few conversations...let us know who you are....let us laugh with you...let us cry with you....let us be your friends.

Cause until you do....it is simply another person who puts forth zero effort and is booty hurt that we ain't falling over ourselves trying to love someone we don't know.

That is how it is.

Krupa, she's just looking for a local woman for an intimate encounter. The chances that she's going to find that by posting here are slim to none.

Well dearie, it's not like you signed a contract, so you are always free to leave. If it bothers you that much, throw your keyboard outta the window (the new rock 'n' roll thang :D). Actually, throwing your keyboard outta your window may get you attention. I must go try that on my neighbours ;)

Sometimes I see a profile of a woman who is far away and I know I'm never going to meet her but I am attracted to her so I send her a nudge to let her know I think she is attractive, Its no different from buying a woman your never going to be with, a drink at the lounge.

We could hook her up with my Uncle Beccy..