Children from broken homes find it difficult to love because their parents never loved themselves or show them true love. Imagine a father beating his wife in front his kids, or a child separated from his mother or father at 4years without proper arrangement for his upbringing.Charity begins at home likewise love if your parents love each other and they also love and care for you definitely love will become part of you. If see your father or mother suffering because what his or her partner did to him or her . Then there will be tendency that you will not allow somebody to oppress you because you don't want to be hurt like your parents. And because you already prepared fight your partner you will not able to love completely even when your partner is good. You may not agree with me but broken homes effects love.

What is your story, young Darling?
Are you from an abusive home?

Broken homes suck, and yep it does affect lives, but if even one parent shows love and forgiveness the children can take that on. Abuse is something as a child that you have no control over, trusting and loving is hard.

Glowlove

That sounds personal & very true. Can't emphasis enough how our past impacts on our future, especially if issues are left undelt with.

That's a very sensitive topic you've touched, such are topics I personally think we should talk more about & help one onother.

It is a shame some boys perpetuate that cycle of violence.

Sisgril it is not personnel at all most of the time I want sample people option on sensitive matter like this. Moreover I have a childhood friend from a broken home till now his love life is nothing to write home about. He is still looking for true love. Don't misunderstand me I think is time for parents to start loving and sacrificing for their children so they can have a happy home too.im not from a broken home the way my mum and daddy love me and care me they didn't separate just because they want me to be happy even though they do have issues. My childhood friend suffered a lot he never exprince the kind of love I enjoyed with my parents till now he is still in pains. My aim of discuss this issue is for parents to love their children and avoid divorce so their will grow knowing the value of love. Again no man is perfect so onces married with kids please try and remain married for the seek of your children but if you must separate try hard to love and care for your kids.

Glowlove

I fully agree with you, cause the after effects of divorce & separation hit more harder on innocent kids. I'm from a broken family, believe me its tough. It has somehow impacted on how I feel about relationships' & commitment.

I'm 29years but still undecided if I wanna be I a relationship, let alone commiting. I know that i'm the product of my past, like anyone else & i try very hard not to let my past affect my future in a negative way, though I must admit it does one way or the other.

Ask me anything else about my future plans, about career, education, investments etc, you'll get full answers about my current & future plans, but ask me about family & relationships, where i'm hitting to...? My mind just blocks, can't answer anything & find it very shameful that at my age, I don't know yet what do I really want when it comes to relationships.

Hardly even think about finding a partner. The only thing i'm sure of is that I desire no one to go through anything i've gone through, growing in a broken family. The after effects can turn to be hectic on kids. Think parents should really consider kids first when intending to separete

I agree with you very diffcult to break away from our past. Even when you decide to break away somehow the past will not let you go. Please just decide that your past will not affect again then move on and give love a chance ok.

Sorry I do not agree.

How a person manifests a relationship is a choice made as an adult. Not all people who appear to be adults are but if a person has their maturity developed they can deal with a history that is past and move forward normally.

Many people come from horribly abusive back grounds to become loving nurtureing partners the if anything make and above average effort to treat the partner as a treasure. Because they have not had that kind of love they are grateful when they find it and don't just expect it as and entitlement.