Topic: Are there any decent guys in here
durant122's photo
Thu 11/21/13 01:15 AM
that is just something normal about every dating site but u can still find some serious minded ones if u wait.

solidslate's photo
Tue 11/26/13 11:03 AM
hey this has really inspired me, I gonna change my name to "captain hot sausage" c wot happens :-)

teebee79's photo
Tue 11/26/13 12:10 PM

I can't speak for everyone else, but i feel i am a decent looking guy,a gentleman, with good morals im trying to meet a good girl (and not for sex only) but for some reason it's not working.so to answer your? Yes there are good guys on here cause I'm one of them. Please answer my? Are there any good girls on here or is something wrong with my profile or me?

offtopic buuuut


You seem like a nice guy, but your profile seems a little thin. Liven it up a bit and add more photos
Good Luck!

My 2 cents..

Carry on with the original questions

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Sat 11/30/13 08:28 PM

The question is sex and love which comes first?



In a perfect world LOVE should come 1st otherwise sex is just that, sensless sex with no meaning, simply an intimate encounter (with not much REAL intimate involved). Once in love sex is no longer sex it is MAKING LOVE which is the ultimate experience between 2 people.

Hansleebjoe's photo
Sat 11/30/13 08:37 PM
Yes you better change the word spicy that will help because some men may take it different.

Ice_Shade's photo
Mon 12/02/13 03:44 PM
Edited by Ice_Shade on Mon 12/02/13 03:52 PM
I never asked for sex online or in life. Low libido i suppose. Don't get me wrong I like women.. There's something about me that isn't easy to explain... I have NO testosterone running through my veins. Estrogen is my dominant, only hormone, running through my veins.. Because I take Estrogen and I DON'T have testicles. They're removed 15 years ago.


My bone structure isn't exactly that of a mans either. I started Hormone Replacement Therapy in my teens. My bones were still growing.


I have many pictures and can take more. Thin bone structure. Petite.

I wear size 0 in jeans. That's because my disease though. (Anorexia)

one_music_man's photo
Mon 12/02/13 06:17 PM
Edited by one_music_man on Mon 12/02/13 06:22 PM
You know, I guess it just really depends on your expectations and requirements of a decent guy. Not all women are attracted to the same qualities that a guy may have true? But, I can tell you this from my perspective as a guy, qualities that I think I would consider to be a good guy. I believe that a good guy is determined not, by the things he says but by the things he does for his wife and family. It is very easy to tell someone what your intentions are, However, actually carrying out those intentions are the most important, otherwise they are just good intentions and talk true? I also consider a good man to be honest (again true to his word) and caring. I consider a caring individual to take notice of their woman's or family's needs and try to find a suitable compromise. Not every thing in life should go his way for he would be selfish to think it should (however, the same is true for women which has been a problem for myself and most other men I know. The women in our lives tend to be all about their feelings, wants, and needs then wonder why their man closes up and quits expressing his wants and needs and feelings which is pretty ironic true?). The last and most important is that he should be emotionally healthy and stable as he can be to have a serious relationship with anyone even friends. That means, he should absolutely be as faithful, loving, and caring as his wife and family are of him. To be otherwise would be contrary to any or all of the above qualities I just mentioned. Let's face it, if you can't be faithful and dedicated to your friends or loved ones, you are just speaking lies or good intentions that you never put into practice. These statements are also true for women out there. I have personally been cheated on by all of my girlfriends and lovers in the past. And, unfortunately, I meet the requirements above and more which makes me tend to believe I just wanted too much from my women (which were thee same qualities they asked of me as stated above). So, now I must ask my question. Why do women always seem to ask for and want what they seem to not be willing to give in return or compromise on? I do not intend to offend any one here but just thought these things should be pointed out. And if anyone disagrees with my input and have facts to back up their statements or replies, I will graciously accept that I was an idiot and foolishly said something that was untrue or biased and admit defeat.
Signed,
one good man

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Wed 12/04/13 05:26 AM
no my dear dont leave.... +233543962564 whatsap me

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Fri 12/06/13 06:34 PM
Dumb blonde.

soulcramster's photo
Fri 12/06/13 09:23 PM
Hey im a pretty descent guy..you can't judge a book by its cover but you are on a dating site..guys and girls minds work differently.they made a book women are from Venus and men are from mars.lol

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Sat 12/21/13 01:05 AM
Look closely we nice ladies are right here

We all nice guys but where are the nice Ladies that's suppose to be the question smh..

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Sat 12/21/13 01:08 AM
Both Parties have their fault...women can neva be satisfied (majority) while men take tins for granted (majority also)

You know, I guess it just really depends on your expectations and requirements of a decent guy. Not all women are attracted to the same qualities that a guy may have true? But, I can tell you this from my perspective as a guy, qualities that I think I would consider to be a good guy. I believe that a good guy is determined not, by the things he says but by the things he does for his wife and family. It is very easy to tell someone what your intentions are, However, actually carrying out those intentions are the most important, otherwise they are just good intentions and talk true? I also consider a good man to be honest (again true to his word) and caring. I consider a caring individual to take notice of their woman's or family's needs and try to find a suitable compromise. Not every thing in life should go his way for he would be selfish to think it should (however, the same is true for women which has been a problem for myself and most other men I know. The women in our lives tend to be all about their feelings, wants, and needs then wonder why their man closes up and quits expressing his wants and needs and feelings which is pretty ironic true?). The last and most important is that he should be emotionally healthy and stable as he can be to have a serious relationship with anyone even friends. That means, he should absolutely be as faithful, loving, and caring as his wife and family are of him. To be otherwise would be contrary to any or all of the above qualities I just mentioned. Let's face it, if you can't be faithful and dedicated to your friends or loved ones, you are just speaking lies or good intentions that you never put into practice. These statements are also true for women out there. I have personally been cheated on by all of my girlfriends and lovers in the past. And, unfortunately, I meet the requirements above and more which makes me tend to believe I just wanted too much from my women (which were thee same qualities they asked of me as stated above). So, now I must ask my question. Why do women always seem to ask for and want what they seem to not be willing to give in return or compromise on? I do not intend to offend any one here but just thought these things should be pointed out. And if anyone disagrees with my input and have facts to back up their statements or replies, I will graciously accept that I was an idiot and foolishly said something that was untrue or biased and admit defeat.
Signed,
one good man

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Sat 12/21/13 01:13 AM
Lol @ know what they want.
Ok I want a man who I can call protector, provider and Lover. I want a friend and a man who will be my baby daddy and a father to his kids, I want a man ready to ensure his promise of "forever" is forever.

It is kind of a recurring theme that women are unable to find a nice guy, I am a kind caring and truly compassionate guy. I have a great job and I am educated. If a lady even responded back would be really happy. Not sure most truly know what they want. I am going back to meeting people the old fashioned way.

blackmagic46's photo
Sat 12/21/13 02:56 AM
Hello beautiful

blackmagic46's photo
Sat 12/21/13 02:59 AM
I am a very respectful guy and have the upmost respect fir a woman if you would like to chat hmu

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Sat 12/21/13 12:14 PM
Okayyy here goes, don't know where this post is goin to pop up but I'm new here JUST made a profile so....Hello there?

Parvese's photo
Sat 12/21/13 01:27 PM
Im new also and am a decent guy looking for that special some one

snowwolf83's photo
Sat 12/21/13 09:09 PM
Parvese i just trying to a good serious guy that will accept my health problem

snowwolf83's photo
Sat 12/21/13 09:14 PM
Hi I'm new to this site just looking for a guy that knows how to treat a woman right

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Sat 12/21/13 11:28 PM
What kind of jerk would pick a lame spot?