For the men and women. What's the first thing you notice or attracts you when you see someone in person? And then when your chatting online? For me in person it's the smile and eyes I also like nice arms. Online a good sense of humor always gets me

Hello to you dear,
Interesting question you asked hey

With me inperson its: cleanlyness & decency. (not nessesarily wearing fancy clothes, but looking clean & decent)

Online its: senseful comment or post. (doesn't have to be a very long post/answer to the asked question but rather loaded with maturity)

his BLUE EYES

There isn't one specific thing that always attracts me. It's going to change depending on the person.

Desperation was always very attractive quality in the chicks of my past whoredom.

Desperation is a guarantee of getting naked with a stranger.

That being said...

I think what I love the most about my mingle wench....she ain't desperate.

She could have any man she wants....but, she chose me. That means something.

I like having to earn my woman. I like having to earn my love.

Ditto.

It's usually a combination of factors or something they said.

Double ditto.

No.....it is how fast they are willing to get naked.

:)

(If you can tell me that a good conversation without clothes is a bad thing....I will throw on some pants...and sulk....and not talk to you people who hate those of us who are pantsless)

That too.

I love you BabyRuth.

:)

Boner

:)

I don't suppose you like Jim Gaffigan? "Hold on, let me get my pants on." hahaha

I have no idea who that is....But ,it sounds like he is stealing my lines.

:)

I've noticed different things about different people that I liked about them from their looks. from the shape of her body to the look of her eyes or even the shape of her lips. Sadly sometimes that can be shattered by the things coming out of that girl's mouth. hahaha

As for online. I'm not really looking for a date as much I am looking to mess with scammers. So I usually look for crazy religious speak, pictures of girls that are very attractive and that are using pictures that look a little to well done. Like professionally done. Most people don't use glamour shots for their profiles I find. But I found a scammer that use a really bad one that was very underexposed. So that doesn't always hold true.

As far as friends which I am fine with making friend and then if a friendship with a girl turns into something more than great. For that I usually look for someone like minded who knows how to take a joke. I've pissed off a few people online who took a joke to personal even when it should have been obvious it wasn't personal. Since I wasn't talking about that person. But you can't do much to change how a person reacts. You can only let them react and go their way.

I won't date hip hop fans. He must love children and animals (get on well with them), as that shows how warm a guy can be. All depends on who it is. He must be athletic, so that we can race each other while running every day. He must have a sense of humor. Nothing worse than a grump. Oh and an art fan.

He's a comedian who on one of his first albums had a line of jokes about HotPockets.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-o-u4IwXkbE That is a video of him joking about cake.

I think he used the joke about putting his pants on while talking about talking to people while on speaker phone. hahaha

something about a balance of confidence and humility

,,finding that balance isn't easy,, ,,,,its a sexy man who manages to

Smiling and considerate to others in general

Appropriate cleanliness and clothing for venue

Affords personal space but can offer a good handshake or casual physical proximity without jumping to immediate familiarity

Basic manners routinely used

Converses with me; no feeling of being whined to, preached to, or interrogated. Can ask a qu3estion and actually listen to the answer; respond to it.

Someone with similar interests

Their spark, they either have it to me or they don't.