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Topic: First thing that attracts you
KeithD87 Joined Sun 05/26/13 Posts: 41	Mon 07/22/13 11:08 AM
Physically, in no particular order: Eyes, legs, hips, glasses are a big plus, a nice smile and a cute/beautiful face. Personality: The ability to make me laugh, someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation, similar tastes in music, books and movies, a sweet and fun but not overly immature personality are usually the most important aspects.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14505	Mon 07/22/13 12:19 PM
A man's total conversation, online and off, what he talks about is usually what is most important to him. A sense of humor is always a Plus. I am not into looks as much as some people are.

spacemel Joined Sat 06/29/13 Posts: 3148	Mon 07/22/13 03:33 PM
his charisma, his attention to me, his kindness, and presence for me

gay97006 Joined Tue 07/16/13 Posts: 36	Mon 07/22/13 03:47 PM
Looking across a wave of people, do you see their face down to the waistline first, or do you wander elsewhere first? From a distance, what grabs me is being HWP, good posture, and a friendly smile. Online chat: sincerity, ability to send more than 1 liners, interested in more than (XXX), good sense of humor

luvnallofme Joined Mon 07/22/13 Posts: 2	Mon 07/22/13 04:09 PM
For me: confidence,swagger, n personality online: being real n true to urself

charlieboy1972 Joined Wed 07/17/13 Posts: 2	Tue 07/23/13 06:40 AM
Usually the eyes first! Then the getting to know you follows

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 07/23/13 06:50 AM
Demeanor as in Missy :Mis-Demeanor?"

dannysy81 Joined Tue 07/16/13 Posts: 68	Tue 07/23/13 07:25 AM
Physically, it's the eyes and the smile...then the kindness and humility in their words

Roses82 Joined Mon 07/01/13 Posts: 46	Tue 07/23/13 07:26 AM
It depends on a quality of the person i guess,,for me is the attitude first,,if he is the same on mine then.....

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 07/23/13 07:36 AM
I have no answer for the question. If I tried to pin it down with one or a few ways I am attracted to a woman, I would be limiting the options. All women have something attractive about them. All I have to do is allow my auora to stay open and receptive to the attractions.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 07/23/13 11:34 AM
noticing her noticing me, noticing me noticing her, simultaneously! and she will become my future X

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Tue 07/23/13 11:37 AM
I thought you were going to say that you'd seen her face before and could stop yourself from looking.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 07/23/13 11:38 AM Edited by ridewytepony on Tue 07/23/13 12:21 PM
Hey wait a minute...who do you think you are your commin' on commin' on...like your some kinda movie star wearin' twelve hundred dollar d'ecollet'e you looked a whoooole.. lot ..better to me...from twenty feet awayyyy well you can say what you like...you can be what you want you can suit yourself, baby but you don't suit me. (Trooper>> 3 dressed up as a 9)

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 07/23/13 11:45 AM
Demeanor as in Missy :Mis-Demeanor?" I dated Mis Demeanor , what a frustrated mess, she just wouldn't give it up enough for my likings, da more I Mis Demeanor I get

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 07/23/13 12:06 PM
noticing her noticing me, noticing me noticing her, simultaneously! and she will become my future X Bahahahahahaha....(((((ride))))))

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 07/23/13 12:31 PM
noticing her noticing me, noticing me noticing her, simultaneously! and she will become my future X Bahahahahahaha....(((((ride)))))) lol three out of four loves, that's how it happened, BANG! at first glance and you both know it! filtering system, out the window. it is a awesome feeling, but a have to look at it as a red flag if they like me (((2km))) hope your well

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 07/23/13 12:34 PM
noticing her noticing me, noticing me noticing her, simultaneously! and she will become my future X Bahahahahahaha....(((((ride)))))) lol three out of four loves, that's how it happened, BANG! at first glance and you both know it! filtering system, out the window. it is a awesome feeling, but a have to look at it as a red flag if they like me (((2km))) hope your well I am fine as frogs hair.. ((((ride))))

shinybell Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 5	Tue 07/23/13 12:37 PM
how she reacts to meeting me...EVERYTHING else comes afterwards....and I will give an HONEST chance to meet someone...

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Wed 07/24/13 07:46 PM
I am a people watcher, so I watch how they act around their friends. If they act like an a$$ around them, I know that I would want nothing to do with them. If they treat a waitress bad and act like they are better, they are not my type. I want someone who respects everyone. BUT as far as the physical aspect goes, the first thing I notice on a man is his eyes. Eyes are the window to the soul, they tell you everything.

WhosaneXL Joined Mon 07/22/13 Posts: 51	Wed 07/24/13 07:51 PM
Truly zeal eye contact. Not many people at all can handle such an ardour lock. It's magical, but definitely not everyone is capable. Really intimate and informative.