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I don't like the dirty feeling of betrayal. No one does. But I would think that keeping communication open, rather than saying her friends or you would be much better. People can have opposite sex friends and really just be friends. If a guy I was dating told me I had to choose my friends or him, I would think he doesn't trust me, which means the relationship just won't work. I agree with this as well to a point. I have to be trusted in order to feel truely loved by a partner. On the other hand, I want my partner to feel very comfortable and at ease in that trust. I think it can be a stressful thing on a partner when they are constantly asked to test that trust. Making it easy to trust you most of the time makes it all the easier for them to accept your word when worry or doubt does come around. And it will...always does. |
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Some people of the opposite sex, will want you as a friend if they have a crush on you, at times. A guy in school did, but once one of my best friend's told me why he was so eager to be my friend, I felt all too aware. It was bad, because I then felt pressure to want him. Yet you can't force romance, so I just still thought of him as just a friend. His expectations were to always try and get me alone, but I was too clever, and knew exactly what he was doing, so I made sure I was never alone where he was. Even if it meant making up excuses like "I'm too busy to meet you after school", or "I can't afford it". As soon as I got a boyfriend, he walked off. What a psycho. He would look at us both angrily. Geez.
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Edited by
Shaharzad
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Sat 07/27/13 09:24 AM
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post 223 dead on
completely agree |
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Hi everyone!
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